The Joy of Friction

The Joy of Friction

Everyone agrees that nipples are one of the most sensitive areas of the body. And everyone agrees that they are ideal for foreplay and the intensification of pleasure. Now, I am a person with very sensitive nipples, but the problem is… I am a man! And, while women with sensitive nipples can openly express their interest in having them played with, and while most partners would find delight in such a task, being a man, I don’t feel comfortable talking about my sensitivity in that area, nor asking my sexual partners to stimulate them. So, I have wasted many opportunities just for being too shy to ask for this particular kind of pleasure, the joy of friction.

Now, my girlfriend Anne is a really warm person. I’ve come to feel comfortable talking to her about anything. So, I decided to tell her about this intimate topic. I told her her about my particularly sensitive nipples. After listening to me carefully and thinking about it for a while, she came up with an amazing solution!

She told me about Shibari, and she said she had taken some lessons and actually knew how to tie some of the basic knots. It really surprised me to hear that because I used to think that bondage was something just for kinks. Anyway, we went to buy some rope. While we were evaluating the different kinds of rope, she asked me to unbutton my shirt. I did, and she quickly passed the rope over one of my nipples. I got such a wonderful sensation that I was barely able to wait till we got home to jump into bed. It was the best sex me and Anne have had in months!

Now, every time we are going to spend an intimate moment together, she rubs the rope around my chest while tying a knot as a preparation for a wonderful experience. I just regret I hadn’t known about the joy of friction before.

This is my Shibari story.

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