Category: FAQ

What to do when there is nerve damage?

Nerve Damage can be a result of sexual practices such as Shibari. Nerve damage mostly occurs in the arms, feet, hands, ankles or wrists. The main causes of nerve damage range from an accident or a fall, to excessive stretching, compression, or cut nerves. In Shibari, nerve damage is very common. Sometimes, it is actually…
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Can large bodies be suspended?

Can large bodies be suspended? Yes, they can. Actually, anyone can try suspension. However, for large people this might be potentially dangerous depending on the weight, the rigger skills and the health issues of the bottom of the bunny. If you are a bug person and you want to try suspension, you need to find…
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Is the size of the Rope important in Shibari?

Is the size of the rope important in Shibari? Yes, because there ropes of different seizes and each one of them serves a different purpose. For Kinbaku, tops use equal length ropes of 7m-8m. This is because that size of rope is actually easier to handle. The size and length of the rope are personal.…
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Non-sexual Shibari

Shibari has become very popular as an erotic practice. However, you can also practice a non-sexual Shibari. Shibari is now present in social media, the Internet, and even in art. Nowadays, it is very easy to get lessons, workshops, find rope events and rope bondage accessories, so Shibari is living its golden era. Shibari appeared…
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Feeling nervous about tying someone

“I’m feeling nervous about tying someone”. This is a common objection in Shibari. Read the article to find out how to overcome this fear. Tying someone might make you feel nervous because it’s your first time doing it for real. Or, perhaps, you are afraid that something might go wrong. Tying is about the sensory…
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What is Bondage

Bondage is one of the buzzwords in the world of sex. It became more popular since the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, in which the public interest in rope practices began growing and more couples than ever are engaging in everything that includes restraints to full time dominant/submissive relationships. In this article, you will find…
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How to Say You Want Kink

Kinki is a term that describes several unconventional sexual activities that go beyond “normal sex”. It is important to know how to say you want kink, since this can surprise, or even shock, your partner. Or they might like the idea. So, how are you gonna tell your partner you are interested in Kink? Telling…
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What Does Kink Mean?

Kink is a term that describes numerous unconventional sexual activities, concepts or fantasies. It is one of the latest trends in the sexual arena. Participants are people who are totally free from prejudice. Kink is a type of behaviour where people enjoy sex in a spontaneous, wild and explosive way. In Kink sex, as in…
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Why Do People Enjoy Being Tied Up?

Why do people enjoy being tied up? This question is the counterpart of another common question: why do people enjoy tying someone up? These questions follow one another. Everything has to do with people’s preferences and desires. In this entry I will illuminate some of the possible answers behind the first one. Why Do People…
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Am I Fit For Shibari?

Am I fit for shibari? At some point of another, most practitioners of this discipline have had the same question, especially in relation to certain body types. For example, have you questioned yourself what type of body you should have in order to practice this art? How about height? How about complexion? Must you be…
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