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Any advice you would like to pass on, an awkward situation that makes a great story or an amazing rope bondage session that you feel the world must know about, this is the place for you to share. Weather you are just beginning to explore the wonderful world of Shibari or are an experienced rigger, this is a safe space where you will be heard and where you can give back to the community by sharing what you know.

Shibari Is a Great Gift

Shibari Is a Great Gift

What can I buy for Richard? I never know. It’s always the same story. I know he loves Star Trek; ...
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A Shibari Apprentice

A Shibari Apprentice

I hate my job. I work as a maid in this big luxury hotel—and let me tell you something: it ...
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Undercover Shibari

Undercover Shibari

I discovered Shibari with one of my exes. He’s been history for a long time, but I’ve kept practicing bondage ...
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A Different Composition

A Different Composition

I couldn't help it, I was bored to death. I mean, I love teaching, but when you spend two hours ...
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Shibari to Punish a Brat

Shibari to Punish a Brat

“Finally!”, she screamed as she reached an orgasm. But wait! That’s the end of the story. I guess I should ...
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Always Hire a Professional

Always Hire a Professional

And then she came back. I knew she would. I could see in her eyes that Shibari truly intrigued her ...
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A Shibari Proposal

A Shibari Proposal

Friday night is our kinky night. Boundaries stretch and we take risks on those nights. It’s our way to keep ...
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Shibari and Expectations

Shibari and Expectations

A Shibari scene lasts for a couple of hours, but, for me, the excitement and the fun last all day ...
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Safety First

Safety First

It was the most important Shibari exhibition in the area. Among the events, there was going to be a suspension ...
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Shibari for the Wrong Reasons

Shibari for the Wrong Reasons

She came to see me at the end of a performance. She wanted Shibari for all the wrong reasons. And ...
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Shibari Aftercare

Shibari Aftercare

It was wild. I really felt I could fly. I literally couldn’t feel my feet or my fingers. It was ...
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A Shibari Student

A Shibari Student

I like Mexico. I had traveled there at least a dozen times before, and I thought I knew it pretty ...
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Shibari Tells a Story

Shibari Tells a Story

I believe in the power of stories. I also believe in the power of movement and in the power of ...
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Shibari Is an Emotional Bond

Shibari Is an Emotional Bond

I tied her, as I used to do. I told her it was going to be as it had always ...
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A Shibari Heroine

A Shibari Heroine

I’ve been a fan of comic books since I was a kid. From the day I opened the pages of ...
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Unexpected Shibari

Unexpected Shibari

When Tanya was hired, I immediately disliked her. We were fine without her, and she didn’t mix with the group ...
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Snow Day Boredom

Snow Day Boredom

Angus had been so nice to me! When my family and I moved to this town, it was especially hard ...
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Shibari Can Release You

Shibari Can Release You

It was painful to see her suffering. We’ve all had a hard time with the pandemic, but, for Sophie, it ...
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Shibari Skills

Shibari Skills

Rope, yards and yards of it. Rope till you bleed because of the friction. And then, rope till you don’t ...
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Shibari and Marketing

Shibari and Marketing

Okay, so there’s a bondage fever nowadays. Big deal! I’ve been an escort for ten years and I’ve seen many ...
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Family Shibari

Family Shibari

It looked like it was going to be the worst summer of my life. I had failed several courses, so ...
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Like a Domino

Like a Domino

Do you like domino falls? I love domino falls! When I was a kid, I bought four boxes of dominoes ...
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A Shibari neighbor

A Shibari Neighbor

Mister Yokoyama was, for the most part, a quiet neighbor. He was kind, of course, and said “Hi!” whenever he ...
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A Shibari Gift

A Shibari Gift

I’m a blogger, just like another 600 million people. I’m a fan of bondage, so I go to many events ...
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Shibari and Responsibility Go Together

Shibari and Responsibility Go Together

I’ve known Lily for some time. She does Shibari for all the wrong reasons. Hers is not a search for ...
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New Games

New Games

My first reaction when I found the pictures was to get really upset. I mean, there was my daughter, barely ...
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A Shibari Surprise

A Shibari Surprise

I grew up watching martial arts movies. I know they are not so authentic, but, even in their Hollywood style, ...
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Unexpected Master

Unexpected Master

Cindy was all the fun you could get in a small package! She was my roomie in college, and we ...
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Shibari in Postwar America

Shibari in Postwar America

I was doing some research for a study in the exchange between American and Japanese cultures. You know: they like ...
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Good Ropes and Bad Ropes

Good Ropes and Bad Ropes

First, the bad ropes. My divorce was a mess. I lost my job, gained a few pounds, got depressed and ...
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Shibari Is Not a Cheap Trick

Shibari is not a Cheap Trick

This was back in the 80s, when we barely knew anything about Shibari. We were young and arrogant, the perfect ...
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Shibari and Vulnerability

Shibari and Vulnerability

It was hell on Earth! My husband had been in Afghanistan for six months. Then, one day, I received a ...
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A Forgotten Sensation

A Forgotten Sensation

It had been so long ago that I barely remembered. It had turned into a forgotten sensation. I was thirteen, ...
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Shibari Is Interesting

Shibari Is Interesting

My name is David and I’m a gameholic. I admit it, I have a problem, an addiction, actually. I’ve tried ...
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Shibari Is not Humiliating

Shibari Is not Humiliating

It was awful. I thought it was normal. And I thought everybody did it. Damn! I should have thought twice ...
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Favorite Shibari Fantasy

Favorite Shibari Fantasy

I’m not a professional rigger, although some true masters, after seeing my work, have told me that I have the ...
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Shibari for Life

Shibari for Life

They said it was impossible. They said I would never be able to do it. And they said I had ...
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Raw Sensation

Raw Sensation

Shibari can be artistic, intensely emotional, even traditional. However, I am a man of raw sensation, and what I like ...
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Mistress Silk Candy

Mistress Silk Candy

I’m a biologist. Therefore, I work in a laboratory. It is a well-paid job, and everyday is a challenge to ...
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Shibari through Generations

Shibari Through Generations

My mom died last year. It hurts, of course. But, on the other hand, I think it was fair. She ...
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Shibari Subspace

Shibari Subspace

“The subspace is an altered state of consciousness due to the release of adrenaline, enkephalins, and endorphins. Although it varies ...
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A Shibari Tutorial

A Shibari Tutorial

It must have been the old lady who always comes to read one Agatha Christie novel during the weekdays. I ...
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Shibari Is Not Always Sexual

Shibari Is not Always Sexual

I made a promise to my family, and I love them. They trust me and I won’t fail them. I ...
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Shibari and Safety

Shibari and Safety

My husband is an engineer. Actually, we met when we worked for the same construction company. Now we have our ...
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A Shibari Fantasy

A Shibari Fantasy

We all have dreams. The difference is that some people fulfill their dreams and most of us don’t. I don’t ...
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A Reason for Shibari

A Reason for Shibari

“I tie their bodies because I couldn’t tie their souls.” This is what an old Shibari master said in an ...
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Shibari Is Exciting

Shibari Is Exciting

Shibari is not the kind of thing you should do on a first date. It’s dangerous, and you don’t know ...
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Shibari and Roleplay

Shibari and Roleplay

It was like the natural next step. We started practicing Shibari a year ago. We were spending most of our ...
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Ancient Shibari

Ancient Shibari

I’m an Anthropology scholar. It sounds boring—and it is boring, if you cannot appreciate the value of discovering ancient ways ...
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A Shibari Bottom Is Important

A Shibari Bottom Is Important

I am nobody. I mean, of course I am somebody, my name is Jane and I’m 20. And I have ...
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The True Meaning of Submission

The True Meaning of Submission

You might think of submission as allowing yourself to be controlled, being passive, losing your own will. You’re wrong. Submission ...
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Shibari and Silence

Shibari and Silence

I hate noise. I mean, I really hate it. Worst thing about it is… I work in a big city ...
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Happy Birthday Kinbakushi

Happy Birthday, Kinbakushi!

Sixty is a difficult age. One the one hand, you’ve learned plenty, lived plenty, and enjoyed plenty; that’s good. On ...
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Shibari with Bondage Tape

Shibari with Bondage Tape

The first time we tried Shibari, it was a disaster. My husband was so ashamed that he couldn’t stop apologizing ...
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Unlocked Memory

Unlocked Memory

I had an unlocked memory from the time I was twelve. We were playing some silly game of spaceships and ...
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Shibari Stops Time

Shibari Stops Time

Julie is one of the best bottoms I’ve ever worked with. She’s passionate about our scenes, and she’s a very ...
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Shibari as Couples Therapy

Shibari as Couples Therapy

Some couples go to therapy, and that’s fine. But, for us, the idea of going to a stranger’s office and ...
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Bottom-Friendly Shibari

Bottom-friendly Shibari

Let me start by saying that most riggers are professional, committed, and, very frequently, kind. However, as in any profession, ...
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Shibari the Art of Stillness

Shibari the Art of Stillness

I am a dancer. So, I use every inch of my body for beauty and art. I have disciplined every ...
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Shibari Improves your Health

Shibari Improves your Health

We went to a Shibari exhibition. It sounded like something exotic and sexy. That’s why when my husband asked me ...
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Training the Touch

Training the Touch

They say men are visual and women are sensitive to smell and touch. Now, I’m sure about my part of ...
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A Shibari Pioneer

A Shibari Pioneer

I always felt I had the spirit of a pioneer inside of me. I love to explore unknown territories, either ...
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Shibari Seasons

Shibari Seasons

I’m a mature woman now. There’s no point in denying it. And I don’t complain. I’ve had a happy life ...
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Shibari Is Not for Everyone

Shibari Is not for Everyone

They call me “master”. For me, that word implies a serious compromise. It took me ten years to deserve the ...
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Taming the Demons

Taming the Demons

I can’t help it. There are many things that make me nervous. And I always worry the most about what ...
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Shibari as a Problem Solver

Shibari as a Problem Solver

My wife and I are the kind of couple that doesn’t talk. That is, we talk everyday, of course, but ...
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Living Portrait

Living Portrait

It all started in a quite usual manner. A rich woman is about to turn fifty and she wants a ...
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Shibari and Sexual Tension

Shibari and Sexual Tension

It happened when we were kids. it’s not unusual, actually. You would be amazed at how many people discovered their ...
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Living Sculptures

Living Sculptures

I don’t know exactly whose idea it was. But it is clear that we all liked it from the start ...
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A Shibari Bet

A Shibari Bet

They say I’m rude, but I’m not. I am very competitive, I can acknowledge that, but in the world of ...
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Shibari and Responsibility

Shibari and Responsibility

Shibari and Responsibility I hate the guy. I mean, I hate any guy who hurts women, but when damage comes ...
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Shibari and Disability

Shibari and Disability

I’m not dead. And, I’m not useless. I’m a human being, a woman, a woman who happens to be on ...
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Shibari for Inspiration

Shibari for Inspiration

I have the greatest job on earth: they pay me to be creative. My ideas are worth money, and everything ...
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The Mysterious Rigger

The Mysterious Rigger

I know it sounds odd, but what could I do? On the one hand, I am a professor: I studied ...
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Productivity Bonus

Productivity Bonus

Productivity Bonus He is lazy. I love him, but he is lazy. Not couch potato kind of lazy, but, if ...
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Shibari as a Personal Prowess

Shibari as a Personal Prowess

I wanted to be the only one. I know it doesn’t sound good. I know many people will say that ...
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A Different Threesome

A Different Threesome

I am an escort. I’m not ashamed of saying it. I’m good at what I do, I have an exciting ...
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Shibari and Joy

Shibari and Joy

I came for the money and stayed for the joy, simple as that. There's a link between Shibari and joy ...
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Shibari for Depression

Shibari for Depression

I felt depressed, really depressed. It was one of those days when everything seemed gray, old, and meaningless. My friends ...
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Shibari is Communication

Shibari Is Communication

I’m a very competitive person. More than you can imagine. I always have to win, no matter what. I don’t ...
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Shibari and Instagram

Shibari and Instagram

I would have never done it, but she asked me to. And I just can’t say no to her. I ...
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Forget 50 Shades

Forget 50 Shades

Forget 50 Shades. It is not sexy. It is dumb. Let's be honest, it just didn’t get it. It took ...
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Secret Shibari

Secret Shibari

She was cheating on me. I knew it. It was as ordinary as it could be. She was away for ...
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Shibari and Trust

Shibari and Trust

Our marriage was breaking up, simple as that. We quarreled all the time. We were hurt. And, we didn’t trust ...
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Shibari and Photography

Shibari and Photography

I thought Shibari was just about sex. You know, one ties the other and then both have a blast, and ...
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Shibari and Role Play

Shibari and Role Play

My girlfriend is a fan of anime. I mean, a real fan. I know they have a name for these ...
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Shibari and Empowerment

Shibari and Empowerment

Petite, small, short, call me whatever you want. The fact is I’m a small woman. I won’t say how short, ...
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The Joy of Friction

The Joy of Friction

Everyone agrees that nipples are one of the most sensitive areas of the body. And everyone agrees that they are ...
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Losing Control Is Good

Losing Control is Good

I’m in charge. That means, I have to be in control of every last detail. Actually, that’s how it works ...
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Like a Spider's Web

Like a Spider’s Web

My friend Sylvia is weird. Not because she’s a lesbian, that’s not weird anymore, but because she’s obsessed with spiders ...
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Hunting a Special Prey

Hunting a Special Prey

There’s something of a Hunter in Bruce. He aims for what he wants, and he goes for it, no matter ...
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Fat Birds Can Fly

Fat Birds Can Fly

Fat birds can fly. I know. I've seen it. I love Jim. He’s sweet, loving, and loyal. He’s the best! ...
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