Night of the Rope Swingers

The night of the rope swingers can be either a night of terror or a night of pleasure. It all depends on how strong your relationship is with your partner. I wouldn’t recommend it to new couples. Actually, I think that would be a recipe for disaster. And even couples with a long history together might feel the strain of sharing an intimate activity with strangers.

You see, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We both wanted to have experiences with other people, but we didn’t feel ready to go into an open sexuality deal. So, since we’re both bondage enthusiasts, we thought that, by becoming rope swingers, that is, by doing scenes with other partners, we would find a middle ground solution. But it wasn’t quite what we expected.

There’s a good part to it, of course. The excitement of doing a scene with someone new was almost overwhelming at first. I mean, after several scenes, you’ve sort of seen your partner’s whole repertoire. And this means there isn’t anything they can do that is really new. On the other hand, here you have someone who talks to you in a different way, who ties you in a different way, and who arouses new, unexpected emotions in you.

However, it is not easy to deal with the feeling that you’re doing something you shouldn’t do. Likewise, it’s not easy watching your partner have a good time with someone else. And it gets worse if the swinger plays bottom better than you do.

In the end, everything went right. We learned a lot from our occasional partners, and we grew closer than before. But, swinging couples is a risky business, and you should not get into it unless you’re really sure of how far you want to go, and how strong the bond with your partner is.

That’s the story of the night of the rope swingers.