Most people think of bondage that rushes your blood and emotions. While this may be true in many cases, it is also true that you can use Shibari for meditation. After all, while a person is tied up, they’re alone with their thoughts. And they can explore their ideas and their feelings, while time passes…
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There are many ways of tying in Shibari. One of the most popular ones nowadays is the chest harness. Well, we’ve got news for you, the chest harness has a big brother: Hishi Karada, the “rope dress”. The Hishi Karada is done with a single rope. Therefore, it requires a certain level of skill. You…
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Restraint is a good idea to spice up intercourse. Whether it is just a touch of it, like holding your partner’s wrists, or a tying of the whole body, as in some Kinbaku scenes, it always offers an almost unbearable rush of excitement. Not to mention how it intensifies the power dynamic among partners. Having…
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One of the most popular kinks is rope games. It’s no wonder that the “B” in BDSM stands for “Bondage”. And Shibari is the most pleasurable form of bondage. As for its effects, it’s not only a great foundation for a kink scene, it also offers many benefits to its practitioners. In this article we…
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If you haven’t tried bondage yet, now is the moment. Since the times of lockdown, rope games have become increasingly popular. And you may find them enjoyable, too. In this article we offer 5 reasons for trying Shibari in 2023. Number one: to tease. Teasing and seduction are, perhaps, the most entertaining and fun part…
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As usual, we begin with a disclaimer: there is actually no such thing as non-consent in kink. Partners should not participate in something if they have previously not agreed about it. There are, however, degrees of consent, and in that continuum, Consensual Non-Consent, or CNC, occupies one of the extreme positions. Domination can be as…
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There is a strong psychological dimension of Shibari. Any bondage enthusiast knows, from firsthand experience, about the emotional connection and the power dynamic involved in a scene. However, there is a less explored psychological aspect of Shibari; actually two. Impulsion, compulsion, and Shibari are related to each other. Read the article to find out how.…
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Nowadays, detachment is fashionable as a strategy for a healthier, more meaningful way of life. Detachment is the creation of psychological distance between a person and something that causes them anxiety and stress. Even though psychologists consider emotional detachment as an unhealthy defense mechanism, other kinds of detachment, such as detachment from work or from…
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There are calendars with kittens, sports cars, and motivational quotes. And these are all fine, for those who like them. But, how about a Shibari calendar? As any rope fan knows, bondage is quite photogenic. Therefore, the idea of preparing a calendar for someone dear to your heart might be the first step for a…
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Bondage enthusiasts know that aftercare is as important as the tying itself. Mishandled aftercare can ruin a scene that was otherwise successful. More importantly, aftercare improves the relationship between top and bottom. Therefore, it is important to know how to provide proper aftercare to your bottom. Here you have the 5 keys for aftercare. Cuddling.…
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