If someone asked me to define the life of a business executive, I would synthesize it in one word: crap. You have to deal with crap every day. Also, you have to try not to increase the amount of crap that the market, the government, and the competition throw at you every single day. And…
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I am an artist. For me, that means to be someone who creates metaphors of life. In other words, I create lies that tell the truth. Some artists use words or sounds, I use ropes. For me, a bondage scene is a statement about chaos, order, and Shibari. Let me explain. Rope by itself is…
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Having a child is a great responsibility. You commit yourself to doing things you hadn’t done before. Likewise, you have to quit doing things that you used to do. It’s a matter of balance and love that anyone with kids of their own will understand. In our case, when our daughter Veronica was born, my…
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If they don’t like it, that’s their problem. I’m gonna do it anyway. And when I succeed and I’m swimming in a pool of money, I will call them and say “I told you!”. I’m gonna tell you the story of my Shibari app and you’ll see that I’m right. I had been working in…
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Aunt Maruh was a very traditional person. Entering her house was like going back in time fifty years. She would frown if my sister spoke too loud, because “that’s not becoming of a lady”, and she would also keep an eye on me because “men are helplessly brute”. All you could do at her home…
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They say you don’t choose who you fall in love with. And it’s true. I would have never expected having a relationship with someone like Melissa. She came from a very conservative family. So, every time I entered her parents’ house, I felt like saying the word “fool” would be an insult never before heard…
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I must have told this story two dozen times before, and that’s ok, it’s a good story. I never get tired of telling it. So, here it goes. Listen to me and learn how I discovered a more subtle Shibari. It all began when I was studying for some really important exams at the hospital…
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I never thought of “coming out” as a bondage enthusiast. I mean, I’m 44 and I’m the chief of a firemen unit. Besides that, I’m a father of three, a devoted husband, and a decorated veteran. In a word, I might be the most respectable person in our little town. Likewise, when I started practicing…
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I’m an actor. That means I have to be many different people beside myself. And it’s no metaphor. Somehow, I have to transform myself into a different person. Sometimes, I have to turn myself into someone completely unlike me. There are many ways of achieving this goal. You’ve probably heard about the Method, and all…
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I realized my mom was kink when I was a teenager. One day, I was searching through the drawers of my mother’s bedroom, looking for something that would make me look older and sexy on a date. You know, at that age, you crave looking older. Suddenly, I found a couple of ropes. At first,…
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