Category: My Shibari Story

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Lonely No More

Once you meet the man of your life, you want to be the only woman in his life. It is not possible, of course. We live in a society way more open to sexuality. Moreover, people marry at an older age. Therefore, it is almost impossible to be the only woman with whom the person…
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Deep Shibari

I’ve been a rigger for over twelve years. And I specialize in Shibari for people who are not bondage enthusiasts. In all those years, I’ve received my share of strange requests. After all, bondage can mean many different things for many different people. But nothing prepared me for what I call “deep Shibari”. This is…
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Some People Never Change

Some people never change, I can assure you. The greedy will be greedy, the jealous will be jealous… You get the point. My wife, Sandy, and I confirmed this old lesson when we attended a Shibari workshop last summer. We’ve been together for over ten years, and we both like bondage. Consequently, from time to…
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A Shibari Folk Tale

My name is David, and I’m a scholar. My speciality are folk tales and legends. I found a Shibari folk tale, and I would like to share it here: “This is the story of the boy Kinoko (mushroom). He had that nickname because he was very short. Kinoko’s mother, Yuri (lily), was a young widow,…
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Safety Is Essential

You know the story: a boy finds his dad’s gun hidden in the closet and causes a tragedy. Well, that’s similar to what happened to me, although there were some differences. First, it wasn’t a gun, but my Shibari kit of ropes. Second, my son is no boy, he just reached 20. And finally, to…
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Unorthodox Therapy

I don’t care if she’s not a doctor. She’s done for me what a dozen therapists with very respectable credentials and stratospheric fees couldn’t. Hers might seem like unorthodox therapy to most people, but it works. And every night, when I go to sleep without the help of any medication, I feel grateful toward her.…
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A Wild Shibari Fantasy

You own your fantasies. You can fantasize about whatever you want, and no one can prevent it. Fantasy is true freedom, for no one can restrict your fantasies, except yourself. Now, Geena and I been together for several years. And we have agreed to fulfill every one of our fantasies, no matter how outrageous it…
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Shibari and Fractals

A fractal is a figure whose parts are made of smaller versions of that figure. For example, imagine a square made of little squares. That’s a fractal. Sounds boring, right? Well, it’s not. And if you combine Shibari and fractals, the results can be very interesting. Believe it or not, I’m a mathematician besides a…
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Ropes Never Leave You

They say there’s a certain age at which life begins taking away instead of giving you. Well, I’m beyond that. I’m at a point where everything and everyone is leaving me. The world doesn’t feel like my world anymore. And most of the people I knew have gone away and turned into memories. There are,…
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The Rhythm of Shibari

Shibari is not just tying. Life is rhythm. it is not always the same. Sometimes you’re happy, sometimes you’re sad. Sometimes it rains, sometimes it’s hot. You get the idea. And that variation, that alternation, is what I call rhythm. And now, I’ve found the rhythm of Shibari. That’s what I mean when I say…
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