Oh, dear! I begin to tremble just to remember. I’m not made for strong emotions. I don’t like fast cars, extreme sports, and roller coasters. If it was for me, I would be the most shameless couch potato you’d ever seen. That’s why when I became a Shibari pendulum, I thought I was the unluckiest…
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I’m a feminist. And I’m kink. I’m a kink feminist or a feminist kink, whichever you want me to be. Very early in my life I felt an urge to fight injustice when it comes to the relation between men and women. And even earlier on, I felt an urge to try whatever was different,…
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I’ve always enjoyed Leonidas’ shows. He’s a very creative rigger and he always comes up with new and exciting bondage scenes. He’s not the most skilled top you’ve ever seen, but he understands perfectly well the emotional undercurrents of a Shibari scene. For him, when it comes to Shibari, there’s always a poem written on…
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I can’t help it. I miss him. Miss him badly! You see, I’ve always been a very romantic woman. Actually, my friends think I’m too romantic. For the longest time, I dreamed about getting married dressed in white. Likewise, I wanted to spend sugar-coated days hanging from my husband’s arm. We’ve only been married for…
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I’m everything you didn’t expect. I play soccer. Actually, I’m a forward. So far, I have scored 36 goals in 3 seasons, which is not bad. Additionally, I’m a rigger. And I take turns tying my boyfriend, and my girlfriend, up (did I mention I’m polyamorous?.) You see, I have a thing against gender roles.…
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Kim is my BFF, no doubt about it. We’ve been friends since elementary school and nothing is going to change that. Ever! And yet, those who don’t know us very well might think there’s a curious dynamic between us. Whenever she gets something new, my first impulse is to jump and yell out: “Me too!…
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As soon as I found the white rope I only used on her, I couldn’t help but remember how I used to tie her up. Indeed, it was wonderful! To clarify, she had been vanilla all her life. I am the one who initiated her in bondage. No one can take that away from me,…
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Like many people, I had severe sleeping problems during the weeks of lockdown. Due to the pandemic, I had to temporarily shut all workshops and suspend all classes. Likewise, all exhibitions and festivals got canceled as well. In a word, I had a business that left me no income, and that kept me awake for…
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Shibari is a matter of touch. That’s the lesson I learned from Alan, the blind rigger. I’m a journalist, but not the kind you’re thinking of. My specialty is finance and international trade. Sounds quite boring, doesn’t it? Well, it is. That’s why I balance my life with a nice dose of kink. I’m into…
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Friction marks are unavoidable in Shibari. Actually, no matter how many soft ropes and delicate riggers you find; in the end, you will always get friction marks. And that’s ok. After all, life is like that, too. Stretch marks are also unavoidable, as well as gray hair. You get the idea. In other words, life…
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