Total Shibari

I had been doing Shibari for ten years. So, I wanted to try something different and challenging. Maurice, my top, is as skilled a rigger as can be. I know he can do anything I ask. So, I did some research. And I told that, to celebrate our tenth year together, we should try ganjigarame, the total Shibari.

Ganjigarame involves tying a person completely, from head to foot. The top experiences an absolute feeling of domination. The bottom, on the other hand, shows a complete vulnerability. And that’s exactly what we wanted, going to the extreme, performing the utmost bondage scene. Total Shibari.

We usually prepare our scenes carefully. That accounts for a good part of our success. But this time, we doubled our preparations, and discussed every detail and every step thoroughly. Then, we bought some new ropes for the occasion, and rented a larger studio.

When the day arrived, we forgot about everything else and focused completely on the task. It was like doing surgery, believe me! I never felt so capable before, and so close to Maurice. It was hard. It took a long time. But it was totally worth it.

When we finished, we both felt overwhelmed by an exhilarating feeling. I was sure we were the most capable couple in the whole bondage community. And we felt that this particular scene had brought us closer than ever. To be honest, I think there are couples that have spent years together and have never been as close as we were that day.

We took a whole weekend for the aftercare, just lazing around by day and cuddling by night. I did a little swimming on the hotel’s pool, to relax my muscles. And Maurice ate tons of seafood, as a prize for his effort and skill.

This is my Shibari story.