Erotic in Shibari – Top’s Survey

A lot has been said about the erotic value of Shibari. That’s why we decided to ask both tops and bottoms what it is they find so sexy in rope games. The results are quite revealing about what we find erotic in Shibari – Top’s survey.

Jonathan M. has been a rigger for over eight years. He practices privately with his wife. And this is what he said: “You know that one of the biggest problems any couple faces is routine. Well, for me, Shibari is like having an erotic encounter with a woman I’ve never met before. I mean, it’s my wife, but the situation is totally different from what we have at home. And I can feel the excitement of the new. It works, believe me!”

Sabrina R. is a rigger who specializes in tying men. She has her own studio, and she regularly does exhibitions and leads workshops. Here’s what she said: “What I find erotic in Shibari is that it allows for changes on the traditional gender roles. I can’t think of anything more bring than being a vanilla woman (vanilla men have a little bit of fun, at least). When I tie a man, I twist and turn upside down all those absurd roles. And I enjoy every second of it!”

Renee S. is a college student. She has been in a relationship with her partner for several years now. And they practice Shibari at home. In her words, “Shibari is extremely erotic because of the power dynamic involved in it. When I come home after a long day at the office, and starts taking out the ropes from the closet, I know something exciting is going to happen. It’s a great way to end the week, and the best is that we can do it at home.”

This was the second article about what we find erotic in Shibari – Top’s survey.