No Shibari on the First Date

A lot can be said about first dates. Basically, some of them go well, and some of them go wrong. Indeed, the Internet is full of anecdotes of people who had an awful time on that first encounter. And there’s no happily married couple who didn’t have one. However, one thing is for sure: you don’t really know each other yet. And that’s why our advice is to have no Shibari on the first date.

First of all, bondage is a complicated matter. It requires planning. And that’s not something you want to do on a first date. Ideally, first dates are for talking, and getting to know each other. Don’t spoil it by turning it into a planning meeting.

Then, there’s the problem of trust. Allowing yourself to be restrained is not something that you can do with anyone. Even well-known friends might not be suitable for giving them that power over you. And if that’s the case with someone you know, it is all the more obvious that you cannot put yourself in the hands of a stranger.

Some people let themselves go if they have a positive intuition about someone they meet. But that’s all that it is—a hunch. For every thing you learn about someone on a first date, there are hundreds of things you still don’t know about them. So, even if you feel a special affinity for that person, it is best to wait until you confirm what you feel about them.

Many good things in life demand patience. And a truly satisfactory bondage experience is one of them. It’s always unadvisable to rush into this kind of practice. Therefore, it’s better to have no Shibari on the first date.

How about you? Do you agree with us, or would you like to have Shibari on a first date?