Worst Bondage Experience

A Shibari scene is usually a great experience. However, just like in everything else, things might go wrong occasionally. It is important to know the kinds of difficulties that you might face, so that you’re better prepared to deal with them. We asked some bondage enthusiasts about their worst bondage experience. Here’s what they said:

“My worst bondage experience has to be the time when my girlfriend didn’t tell me about the heavy breakfast she had just taken—despite my warning her to eat lightly before the scene. She began to feel bad, and, before I knew it, she had almost passed out. I called 911. And, even though I had to offer some uncomfortable explanations, I think it was the best thing to do.” —Kevin, 32.

“I play bottom for professional riggers from time to time. It’s fun, and the pay is good. Anyway, on this occasion, I ended up with a rigger about whom I didn’t know anything. And he turned out to be a complete pervert! We were half way through the tying, when things began to get creepy. Now, I always trust my instincts. So, I asked him in a commanding voice to untie me, and I gave him his money back. You should never play bottom for someone you don’t trust.” -Bethany, 27.

“The foundation of any kinky practice is consent. And consent is actually very specific. I was doing a scene with a man I met at a convention. We had agreed to a nude scene. However, when I realized that he was taking pictures, I asked him to stop. I have never consented to being photographed in that way. It sounds obvious, but you must always remember that consenting to one thing doesn’t mean consenting to something else.” Lyla, 31.

What about you? What has been your worst bondage experience?