Shibari Swingers

Swinging couples have been in the kinky scene for decades now. The idea of exchanging intimate partners for providing excitement and surprise to relations that are falling into routine is nothing new. However, there is a new variation of the swinging trend: Shibari swingers. They are long term bondage couples who exchange partners with another couple for a scene, in order to discover new aspects of their bondage fetish and recover the enthusiasm for it.

A different partner means a different tying dynamic, since bodies and reactions are different. It also implies a new emotional dynamic, for partners do not know each other so deeply. This means their personalities are not so adapted to each other, as is the case with long time partners. Even the power dynamic experiences change. All of this can result in an exciting, sensual rope session.

On the other hand, Shibari swinging faces similar problems as those of ordinary swinging. If you skip negotiation, disagreement in the development of a scene can lead to open conflict and hostility. Moreover, coordination between top and bottom is always more difficult when participants don’t know each other very well. And, even though there is no sexual intercourse in this variant of swinging, domestic conflicts can still arise.

For all those reasons, Shibari swingers should be willing to negotiate thoroughly every aspect of the scene. Each participant must understand what the swinging implies. Moreover, everyone must make clear what is not included in the exchange of bondage partners.

One final piece of advice. If you’re planning to swing partners with another couple, look for people you can trust. After all, you’re trusting them with one of the most cherished persons in your life: your bondage partner.

By following this advice, you will obtain a satisfactory experience for all the people involved, which is why you’d do this, in the first place.