Category: Getting Started

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Negotiation in Shibari

Negotiations a method by which people settle differences. It is a process to reach an agreement, while avoiding argument and dispute. In Shibari, consent and negotiation come together. Explicit consent is very important. You can’t rely only on implied consent for a scene, since there will be room for misinterpretation. In Shibari, it is very…
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Shibari at Home

Shibari at home is a very good idea. It is a place where you will have privacy and comfort. Moreover, you can take as long as you want in a scene. Likewise, it is a place that you are familiar with. This creates a more confident and private atmosphere for you and your partner. Practicing…
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Consent in a Shibari Scene

Shibari is a BDSM practice, and like any other BDSM practice, it is important to have good communication, trust, and to never forget consent and negotiations before a scene. Consent is very important. If you rely only on implied consent, there is a lot of room for misinterpretation. Therefore, you cannot count on someone being…
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Guidelines to Reduce Risk in Shibari

Shibari, as any bondage practice, involves risk. Therefore, it is important to know the guidelines to reduce risk in Shibari. In this post, we will give you the quick Guideline to reduce the risk in Shibari. The guideline includes 4 points: Time, Planning, Communication and Making Good Decisions. Let’s start with time. It is important…
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What you get from Shibari

What you get from Shibari, like everything in life, depends on the motive and intention behind your practice. There are a lot of misconceptions about Shibari. They say it is only about sex, violent, degrading, or even a form of torture! However, you will definitely find some benefits from Shibari. Practicing Shibari will give you…
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Minimalist Shibari

Minimalism is keeping things simple. It usually comes with the quote “Less is more” by the architect Mies Van Der Rohe. Although originally referred to architecture, it is used today generically in the world of arts and design. The more thing it contains, the busier the artwork will be. In Shibari or Rope Bondage rope…
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Make your rope smell and feel good

If you are into Shibari, you are probably interested in learning how to make your rope smell and feel good. The machine smell is pretty strong and you might want to fade that smell away. You can add some substances to the rope. What you add to your rope is a very personal choice. Some…
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Get Started in Shibari

Shibari is a Japanese style of bondage. It is a kind of art, where you tie rope around someone’s body, while you are making different patterns and connection with that person. Shibari focuses on the exchange of emotions and feelings among partners. Read the article and learn how to get started in Shibari. In Shibari,…
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It Depends on the Individual

People usually think that the experience of tying people is the same in every situation and with every partner. However, the experience depends on the individual. Physical differences and limitations are a variant in the experience of the scene. The scene will be different with each individual although you are making the same routine. It…
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Things People Love About Shibari

Shibari comes from the Japanese word that means “binding” or “tying”. It is a Japanese style of bondage. There are many things people love about Shibari. A lot of people who come across Shibari or Kinbaku end up mesmerized by the detailed knotwork. Additionally, they find in Shibari a way to communicate their feelings with…
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