Rope Foursome

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Natan and Jack were friends. And we weren’t going to ruin their friendship. When I say “we,” I mean Liza and I. She’s married to Natan, and I’m married to Jack. They had been friends since high school, so we both decided that we would let them continue with their friendship. Not only that, but we would also become part of it. If Natan and Jack had seen Lord of the Rings together twenty years ago, now we would join them to see the new Star Wars movies. That’s how we got to the point where we organized a rope foursome. Let me tell you the story.

As you may have guessed, our men are on the nerdy side of the spectrum, whereas Liza and I are decidedly kinky. Why did each of them choose a kinky girl to marry? I don’t know exactly, but I guess it has something to do with complementary personalities.

The point is that it didn’t take long for us girls to think about something naughty to do together. I mean, it’s great to watch fantasy movies and play board games with all four of us together. But we wanted something more adult-oriented. And the rope foursome was the answer.

We took a Shibari workshop together. At first, of course, the men were doubtful, but we promised to do a photoshoot about their favorite cosplays after the Shibari workshop, and that signed the deal. In the first session, each husband tied his wife, as it should be. But, for the second session, we agreed to exchange partners.

There’s a difference between swingers and bondage couples who exchange partners; everybody knows that. And yet, I can assure you, there was an extra level of excitement about the fact of being with someone else, right in front of my husband. Likewise, watching Jack do a scene with another woman was exciting in an odd, delicious kind of way.

You should try it yourself.

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