It had been a particularly good night. As a female rigger, I always try to do my best when I perform. You know, there are still some strong prejudices out there, even in the BDSM community. The exhibition was well organized, and the scene played out perfectly. I couldn’t be happier. I took a well-deserved…
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I know everything there is to know about Shibari. I could write a book about it. Actually, I could write a dozen books about it. You can call me a Shibari nerd, and that would be an accurate description. However, I am afraid of putting everything I know into practice. To put it simply, I’ve…
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At some point, when you’re with someone, and the relationship gets serious, you ask yourself when you’ll become part of the family. You know what I’m talking about. The moment when your special someone decides to introduce you to their family and relatives. It is a clear sign that things are getting serious. And that,…
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All couples have their own, secret games. Ours is called “A Rope Prisoner.” It might surprise you to know that a couple of forty-somethings play bondage games after eleven years of marriage. And you may even be more surprised when you learn that we’re both military officers. But, that’s the way it is. And it’s…
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Rafael Pérez Gay is a Mexican writer. In 2006, he wrote a short story collection entitled “Paraísos duros de roer” (Hard to Bite Paradises). One of the stories in that book is “Bondage.” And, obviously, since it is not frequent to find a Shibari short story in a book, we read it. Here are our…
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His name was Ronnie McGinley, but everybody in school knew him as Ronnie, the weirdo. Young people are supposed to be open-minded, but Ronnie talking about his taste for kink once was enough for most of the high school students to see him as a pervert, and to stay as far from him as if…
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I work with two riggers. That’s how it has been since I started playing rope, and I’m not willing to change it. I couldn’t. Arthur is the best soft-skilled rigger you can imagine. He’s great at communication, and he knows how to drive your feelings toward the climax of the scene. (When I work with…
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You know what they say: don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to. Clearly, it’s great advice. Unfortunately, it is also impossible to follow, since we humans are born curious and stay curious all throughout our lives. Therefore, I don’t feel guilty for what I did. After all, I needed to find out. And…
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Anyone can tie their partner’s wrists and believe they are being kinky. Likewise, any square couple can get a little rough and assume they are experiencing domination. I mean, any average vanilla jerk can buy some handcuffs and think of themselves as part of the BDSM community. And yet, anyone who is truly into the…
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I love bondage. There’s only one thing that I love more than bondage, and that’s watching a rope scene as it unfolds in front of my eyes. I’m a rope lover, and I’m also a voyeur. I don’t believe that you should only stick to one kink. Quite the opposite; for me, each one of…
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