Shibari First Time

A Shibari first time should be a wonderful experience. Whether you are an experienced kink or are taking your first steps into the realms of diversity, Shibari always has something valuable to offer the newcomer. Here is some advice to make your first time an even better occasion. 

First of all, if Shibari is your first experience with kink, make sure you understand what it is about. Likewise, understand what you’re about to do. For many, Shibari sounds like one of the most amiable forms of kink. After all, that’s why it’s a popular choice for a first kink experience. Wonderful as it is, it is important that participants understand exactly what is going to happen during the scene. Specifically, they must know what they are agreeing to.

Don’t forget this: you can always ask for a scene to stop if you feel something is going wrong. The bondage experience can turn out very different from what a person imagined when they agreed to a rope game. Therefore, first-time Shibari practitioners should always have the option to stop the experience so they can reconsider their participation. Of course, they should have the right to quit the scene entirely, despite their previously-granted consent.

Shibari is, by its very essence, an intensely emotional experience. When someone is joining a scene for the first time, these emotions run even stronger. Therefore, make sure to be extra-empathic with first-time participants. They may feel overwhelmed by the scene, and it is important that, in these cases, more experienced bondage enthusiasts offer support, guidance, and protection.

On the other hand, a newcomer may not be able to handle the pleasure and fall into a state of euphoria. Once again, it is important that more experienced participants keep them from going too deep into the Shibari experience due to the excitement of the first time.