All couples have their own, secret games. Ours is called “A Rope Prisoner.” It might surprise you to know that a couple of forty-somethings play bondage games after eleven years of marriage. And you may even be more surprised when you learn that we’re both military officers. But, that’s the way it is. And it’s…
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Controlling a scene is easy, right? You just have to be as hot as you can, and enjoy the intense emotional exchange between you and your partner, and that’s it. Wrong! Controlling a bondage scene is something serious that demands several capabilities from all participants involved. First of all, you have to distinguish the personal…
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A disturbing finding is nothing unusual, actually. Many people have found lipstick marks on the shirts of their couples, or the smell of someone else’s parfum, or suspicious spots on a skirt. You name it! However, what I found on Jennifer’s body when we were spending the night together was something I wasn’t expecting at…
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Many people play D&D. Some of them are very enthusiastic about it. We usually called them nerds. And that’s an accurate description, if you ask me. However, the D&D I play with my nerdy boyfriend and his nerdy friends is definitely not the regular D&D. Let me tell you the story. First, I must say…
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I got friendzoned. Period. There isn’t a nicer way to put it. I asked my friend Melissa on a date, and her reply was a long monologue about what a good friend I was. It hurt. Period. It takes a while to be happy again being friends with someone you saw in a romantic light.…
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Some people say that the quality of the aftercare is what separates rope gamers from true artists. If it’s so important, what are the keys to great aftercare? Here are some of them. First of all, aftercare takes time. Think about what happens after you just had sex. Turning around and falling asleep in less…
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BDSM in general and bondage in particular carry the weight of an unfortunate misconception. Many people think that they are hostile to women. In their view, this kind of practices objectify and humiliate women. This, of course, is a gross misunderstanding. And it is upheld mostly by people who have never practiced any kind of…
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Can you combine Shibari and romance? In other words, can you and your partner plan and perform a bondage scene that is also a romantic statement? The answer is yes, it is possible. And we’ll tell you how. We have to begin by remembering that passion is the essence of romance. And passion means intensity.…
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Open workshops and group classes are usually the best options for people trying to learn Shibari. However, they are not the only options available. For some bondage enthusiasts, it might be better to hire a personal instructor. In this article, we talk about when to take private lessons. First of all, if your goal is…
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The end was the best part. And I’m not talking about a movie. I’m not talking about sex, either. I’m talking about the verified fact that my boyfriend is the best aftercare provider in town. You don’t believe me? Let me tell you about it. When talking about bondage, most people focus on the scene…
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