We were all afraid during lockdown, and we can talk openly about it. However, we were also really bored. However, that’s not something you should say, because it sounds insensitive. And yet, I think it’s time to acknowledge that practicing bondage during lockdown is what brought the fun back. Well, I’ll say it: It was…
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I love Jim. He’s sweet, loving, and loyal. He’s the best! We’ve been together for four years now, and I really believe he’s the love of my life. Forgive me if I get sentimental, but I always cry when I tell the story of a fat bird. That’s why it makes me so sad to…
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I was getting married! And, yes, I am one of those women for whom marriage is the fulfillment of a dream. I’m also the kind of woman who wants to have a bachelorette party. You know, a last wild night before committing for the rest of her life. As for my bachelorette party, I promised…
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I love Lucy! Of course, I’m not talking about an old TV show. I’m talking about my best friend since I was in elementary school. Nowadays, I don’t see her as often as I used to. But that doesn’t matter, because we still manage to have a season only for ourselves. Besides, we have a…
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You’ve heard it a hundred times: after years and years together, passion cools off, and married couples start having troubles in the bedroom. If they don’t take effective measures, they’ll end up growing apart from each other. In our case, Shibari brought back the fire. I’ll tell you how it happened. Well, that’s exactly what…
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Normalization has become sort of a buzzword these days. Essentially, it means that something that used to be strange, unusual, or plain wrong, has now become widely accepted. Actually, people are seeing it as something ordinary. For example, videoconferences were a dream thirty years ago; now we all take classes via Zoom. Barely fifty years…
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Desire is part of the human condition. We all want something, and, once we get it, we want something else. Desires might be as basic as a cheeseburger and as complex as winning a Nobel Prize or becoming a member of Congress. Shibari is no stranger to desire. Actually, there’s a strong link between Shibari…
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I want to make something clear from the beginning: I love my husband. We’ve been married for six months, and it is a daily dream. I knew it was going to be like this. My heart told me he was the one. However, my intuition also told me that he was a little bit more…
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“I’ll try anything once”, is my motto. And I think it’s a good philosophy of life. After all, how can you know if something is good or bad if you haven’t tried it? I think we should give everyone and everything a chance. If it doesn’t work, you don’t lose much, and if it does,…
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Eventually, all couples who are getting serious have to talk about past experiences. It’s not easy, of course. But if you refuse to have this conversation, sooner or later it will explode in the worst possible way. I know because that’s more or less what destroyed my first marriage. We convinced ourselves that whatever had…
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