Shibari brought back the fire

You’ve heard it a hundred times: after years and years together, passion cools off, and married couples start having troubles in the bedroom. If they don’t take effective measures, they’ll end up growing apart from each other. In our case, Shibari brought back the fire. I’ll tell you how it happened.

Well, that’s exactly what was happening to my husband and me. You see, we’ve been married for eight years, and even though we find each other very attractive, in the end, you unavoidably grow tired of each other. You know what they say: “Nobody likes having the same menu day after day”, or something like that.

We tried everything—romantic vacations, dates for married couples, cosplay, you name it! Nothing seemed to work, and we were both worried about our future.

That’s when Shibari came into the picture. In case you don’t know, Shibari is the art of Japanese bondage. It’s beautiful, it’s different, and it’s sexy as hell!

Of course, you need training to do this. You can’t just jump into a scene and hope things will work out well. My husband and I took the free lessons from Shibari Academy, and some other courses. That might sound boring, but it was actually very nice to have a common project after working separately for years.

When the big day came, we rented a studio just for the two of us, and we did a scene that was simple, but fun and sexy. Besides, we had a blast! I mean, it was like dating all over again. There was excitement, passion, and laughter. Additionally, we discovered new things about each other, and that doesn’t happen very often after years together.

I don’t have to tell you where and how the night ended. I’ll just say again that Shibari brought back the fire.

Let’s just say that if you’re looking for something to spice up your marriage, Shibari might be the right thing for you.