Shibari and Role Play

Shibari and Role Play

My girlfriend is a fan of anime. I mean, a real fan. I know they have a name for these kind of people. They even accept it with pride, but I don’t remember it. You see, anime is just not for me. I think it’s weird. And, even though I love my girlfriend, it’s hard for me to join her in the endless hours she devotes to her hobby. So, I usually do something else while she enjoys her comic books, series and movies. That was until we discovered the relation between Shibari and role play.

Now, being apart for hours is not the best way to strengthen a relationship, and we were both worried about this situation. I don’t want to ask her to quit anime because I think that would be very unfair. But she knows that it would be just as bad if I tried to develop an artificial interest in something that is just not for me. 

I gotta give her credit for doing some research and coming up with what proved to be a great idea. She loves cosplaying, she even invents some characters of her own. On the other hand, she knows that, even though I don’t like things rough by any standard, I do like to be in control when it comes to us together in bed. So, she decided to combine both things and asked me to tie her while she was dressed up as one of her characters. 

I was reluctant at first, but then I took some workshops and researched a few pages, and I realized that this could be really exciting and fun. She developed a little narrative for our characters —something she had always wanted to do—and we went for it. Man, it was great! And not just the sex. We were together. I mean, really together. By doing a tying scene, we developed a connection we had never had before. 

Now, we spend hours together, planning our next Shibari scene. Believe me, Shibari and role play are a winning combination.

This is my Shibari story.