I’m a construction worker. That may sound to you like a boring job. But it becomes more interesting when you’re gay and you have to lead a double life, in which, during the day, you’re a tough guy, and, at night, you’re a sweet gay. And when I ended up tying the boss, I realized…
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White Wing Black Wing words were an ultimatum: either we did the scene as he wanted, or he would cancel our participation in the Shibari exhibition. To answer the question that most probably is on your mind, I will say that White Wing Black Wing is the artistic name of the bondage artist with whom…
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I knew it! It had to be him. From our first exchange of glances I was sure he’s Mr. Right One. And the fact that it all came together through bondage just makes it better. The story starts eight months ago, when I met Humphrey in a kink festival. I’m a very traditional woman in…
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I love Lilian. I swear I do. But she had a serious problem and we needed to do something about it. I tried many solutions, but none of them worked. That is, until I came up with the idea of the saving rope. I’m a psychologist. More specifically, a sexologist. (I don’t like the term…
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I’m an artist. And artists never stop being artists. That is, a painter is always looking for something to paint. A writer, even if he’s having lunch, will come up with ideas for new stories. I’m a rope artist and I never stop thinking what I’m going to do in my next scene. That’s how…
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Oh, dear! I begin to tremble just to remember. I’m not made for strong emotions. I don’t like fast cars, extreme sports, and roller coasters. If it was for me, I would be the most shameless couch potato you’d ever seen. That’s why when I became a Shibari pendulum, I thought I was the unluckiest…
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I’m a feminist. And I’m kink. I’m a kink feminist or a feminist kink, whichever you want me to be. Very early in my life I felt an urge to fight injustice when it comes to the relation between men and women. And even earlier on, I felt an urge to try whatever was different,…
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Some people, due to their physical conditions, might find it difficult to practice certain activities. That is, it is difficult to include them in such activities. On the other hand, activities which allow many different types of persons to practice them are considered more inclusive. Nowadays, practically all Western societies emphasize inclusivity. And that’s a…
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A gender stereotype is a generalized view about men and women, and their proper activities. Gender stereotypes frequently lead to prejudice, since they establish what a person can or cannot do according to their gender. Shibari, on the other hand, has an essentially kink vision. That is, it allows diversity, creativity, and freedom. Therefore, it…
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From Samurai Restraint to Art and Connection Shibari, the Japanese art of rope bondage, has a deep and multifaceted history. While its contemporary form emphasizes connection, artistry, and self-expression, its roots stretch back to very different origins. Understanding how Shibari evolved—from battlefield to bedroom, from punishment to performance—sheds light on the meaning and richness behind…
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