Interaction Types in Shibari

There are plenty interaction types in shibari. Many people practice this discipline around the world—but there is not a single, monolithic, way of doing it. Everything depends on each individual or partner.

Every rope interaction will be different; for this reason, it is very hard categorize them. However, categorizing shibari into different types can help you to establish some common rules and goals. In short, it is a way of setting expectations. Every interaction has different expectations and goals, so this will help you differentiate what you are looking for and what to expect.

The Three Ps: Interaction Types in Shibari

Masters usually divide shibari into three different types: practice, play, and performance.

Interaction Types: Practice

Firstly, there is practice, aka labbing. In practice, the goal is to learn new skills or ties. In addition, it aims at practicing and improving them. This usually requires the guide of a master. In short, during practice you learn.

Depending if you are a top or a bottom, you will identify what you want to improve. For example, on the one hand, as a bottom you would maybe like to experience new ways to process a tie. On the other, as a rigger, you might want to practice the tension of your ties. During practice, both practices will share ideas, suggestions, and experiences without any dominant or submissive dynamic restriction.

Play

Secondly comes the play. It includes any rope interaction where the goal is mutual enjoyment. The play is sensual, humorous, romantic, comforting, and sexual. In addition, it may include a power-exchange dynamic. Since the play focuses on mutual pleasure, clear negotiations and trust are very important.

Performance

Thirdly, there is performance. In this type of shibari interaction, you use live performance, videos, and photography, just to mention a few, to show some aspects of rope bondage to others. The pleasure between partners comes in second place. Usually, the interaction between partners occurs as performance in order to share it with others. However, keep in mind that in performance risks become higher. Many are involved in negotiations and safety of the performers, such as the dungeon monitors.