Key Body Parts in Shibari

Undeniably, as with any other kink deviation, you must have a thorough knowledge of your partner’s body if you want to practice Shibari. Then, you must understand which are the key body parts in Shibari, since not all of them have the same importance. Moreover, there are some body parts you should not include in your scenes. 

Wrists. These may be the most important elements for bondage. Restraining your partner’s hands is the clearest sign of domination. That’s why some people restrain their partner’s hands using their own handcuffs, tape, or other substitute for rope. In the case of Shibari, you can tie the wrists separately, together, or tie them to a column. (Remember that, in the language of bondage, a column is a fixed piece of furniture.)

Ankles. Restraining the ankles is a must if you’re doing a floor scene, or if you’re doing Shibari in bed. You can also tie the ankles when a chair is part of the scene. It is not recommended, however, to tie the ankles if you’re doing a standing scene. This is because restricting the movement of your partner’s feet may cause them to stumble or fall. And you would never want to hurt your partner in such a way. If you extend the knot all the way through your partner’s calves, you may get a beautiful result.

Chest. Chest harnesses are a popular choice in Shibari. They look wonderful and, if your partner has a nice chest or an athletic abdomen, it will look great. Moreover, chest harnesses can be used during a scene, or under the clothes through a normal day, which adds an element of secrecy to your bondage kink.

Thighs. Since they are closer to the crotch, knotting the thighs always has a sexual connotation. In erotically charged scenes, tying the thighs can work as a great prelude to intercourse. 

One final note: remember never to tie the neck. Under no circumstance should you put a rope around your partner’s neck. It’s too dangerous.

Now you know what you need about the key body parts in Shibari.