Consent Is Always Essential

The “Free the Kink” Facebook group shares several visual materials that remind their members and visitors of just how important consent is in any kinky practice. As any BDSM enthusiast knows, consent is always essential to keep things SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual).

Some of the slogans provided by “Free the Kink” include the following:

1) Consent to one thing doesn’t mean you have to consent to anything else.

2) It’s always a good time to ask for consent.

3) Prior consent doesn’t mean current consent.

4) You should clearly discuss how you can stop a kink scene or interaction. You must have a safe word or safe signal so you can stop what’s happening.

5) Yes + Yes = Consent.

6) Consent embraces the freedom of expression achieved when informed consent is present.

Consent can never be missing in any interaction between adults. You might think it refers only to sexual intercourse. However, you can apply to all areas of a relationship. Entering into someone’s life, dealing with their feelings and values, and all other aspects of a relationship should always be approached with respect.

Consent is the key difference between a respectable, albeit alternative, lifestyle and plain abuse. Therefore, if you want to remain on the right side of things, you should always keep consent in mind. Also, remember that consent does not diminish the excitement and fun of an alternative practice. Quite the opposite, it ensures that all participants involved obtain satisfaction while, at the same time, they are fully respected in their identity and preferences.

As you can see, these educational materials summarize all the philosophy of consent in simple slogans that are easy to learn and remember. Normalizing consent in any relationship, kinky or not, is a valuable goal that everyone should make their own.

The images with all these phrases are available for free in the multimedia section of the “Free the Kink” Facebook group.

And remember, consent is always essential.