It could have been worse; that’s what I want you to understand. Thank Heaven, I can tell you this story today. But if things had just gotten a little bit worse, you would hear about my case in a crime program. And if that scares you, good! Because that’s what I want. I want to…
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It had been a particularly good night. As a female rigger, I always try to do my best when I perform. You know, there are still some strong prejudices out there, even in the BDSM community. The exhibition was well organized, and the scene played out perfectly. I couldn’t be happier. I took a well-deserved…
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My name is Aileen. I’m 21, and I’ve been kinky for a few years now. My dad is a good man. I want to make that clear from the beginning. But there are things he just doesn’t understand. For example, he’s all into traditional gender roles, and he doesn’t understand that a woman can be…
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I know everything there is to know about Shibari. I could write a book about it. Actually, I could write a dozen books about it. You can call me a Shibari nerd, and that would be an accurate description. However, I am afraid of putting everything I know into practice. To put it simply, I’ve…
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At some point, when you’re with someone, and the relationship gets serious, you ask yourself when you’ll become part of the family. You know what I’m talking about. The moment when your special someone decides to introduce you to their family and relatives. It is a clear sign that things are getting serious. And that,…
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The dictionary describes “weird” in a very imaginative way, as something that suggests the supernatural or something uncanny. In everyday language, however, we simply define it as the opposite of the usual, that which is not normal. This, in turn, brings up an important question: how weird is weird? How can we tell when something…
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A lot has been said about what it takes to be a great Shibari master. Most rope practitioners become so enthusiastic about bondage, that they want to keep improving. In this article, we sum up the profile of the best rope player in terms of two factors: a soft personality and hard skills. Let’s begin…
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Have you ever taken a moment to think about what you discover through Shibari? As any bondage enthusiast will tell you, rope games are not just about ropes. There are emotions and a power dynamic involved. This complex interaction can lead to discovery. First of all, you discover your limits through Shibari. We live in…
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You’ve probably heard about introverts and extroverts. Moreover, you’ve probably done a quiz or two to find out which type you are, and then read about how you can use your type of personality for better advantage at work or on dating. That’s all fine, really. However, today we want to add a new category.…
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As you know, BDSM is an umbrella term that includes a wide range of activities. We call these “practices,” and they can range from mild to extreme. So, for example, we would consider a lingerie fetish or a foot fetish a mild practice. After all, it only needs a piece of clothing or emphasizing an…
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