Today we present a story from WWII. We wanted to share it with you for two reasons. First, because Shibari plays a crucial role in it. Second, because it shows that bondage is not just a matter of ropes, but also a matter of feelings. Sometimes, we have to restrain our bodies to release our…
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My mom is a control freak. There, I said it. And it’s true! From the way I dress to the food I eat to the directions to get somewhere she has never been to, she has to control every aspect of my life. Of course, when you’re younger, you don’t realize the full extent of…
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Dina used to be Daddy’s little girl. My girl, that is, because I am her father. I was always proud that she used to look up to me. And whenever she asked me to come fishing with me to the river on the outskirts of our town, I was the happiest man on Earth. Then,…
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I got friendzoned. Period. There isn’t a nicer way to put it. I asked my friend Melissa on a date, and her reply was a long monologue about what a good friend I was. It hurt. Period. It takes a while to be happy again being friends with someone you saw in a romantic light.…
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We all enjoy Shibari. However, for some people, it might be the moment to leave it behind. There are several reasons for quitting Shibari, and openly discussing them might be helpful for those considering it. That’s why today we decided to post this article. The most obvious reason for quitting Shibari is health. Just like…
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Some people say that the quality of the aftercare is what separates rope gamers from true artists. If it’s so important, what are the keys to great aftercare? Here are some of them. First of all, aftercare takes time. Think about what happens after you just had sex. Turning around and falling asleep in less…
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BDSM in general and bondage in particular carry the weight of an unfortunate misconception. Many people think that they are hostile to women. In their view, this kind of practices objectify and humiliate women. This, of course, is a gross misunderstanding. And it is upheld mostly by people who have never practiced any kind of…
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Can you combine Shibari and romance? In other words, can you and your partner plan and perform a bondage scene that is also a romantic statement? The answer is yes, it is possible. And we’ll tell you how. We have to begin by remembering that passion is the essence of romance. And passion means intensity.…
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Any person over 40 will tell you that, in the good old days, searching for information was a lot harder than it is today. And it’s true. In the pre-internet era, finding reliable information about a specific subject was no easy task. Taking that into consideration, you can imagine how hard it was for the…
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Open workshops and group classes are usually the best options for people trying to learn Shibari. However, they are not the only options available. For some bondage enthusiasts, it might be better to hire a personal instructor. In this article, we talk about when to take private lessons. First of all, if your goal is…
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