I have to hide myself. I know that people are more open-minded nowadays, and that alternative lifestyles are becoming increasingly popular. Nevertheless, I’m not willing to take the risk. I have too much to lose. That’s why I had to hire a private Shibari instructor. I will tell you my story, and I’m sure you’ll…
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I have three problems: the knots and the strings and the feet. In other words, I can’t tie, I can’t play the guitar, and I can’t dance. And I must say, it is quite sad to be a young man and not be able to do any of these things. But, hey, each one of…
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“Chubby Chandra”, that’s what they used to call me. And by “they”, I mean everybody. My parents and my friends called me Channy. But ever since I was a kid, because my obesity problem began when I was just a child, people have called me Chubby Chandra. It’s not easy to grow up like that.…
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There is a moment when you know you’re going to have an affair. Everyone who has cheated knows it. You feel as if you were standing in front of a cliff, and you decide to jump, even if you know that the landing is going to be a disaster. I knew Danny and I would…
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Some things we know by intuition. For example, some people are good at driving from the first time on. Likewise, others, men and women, have always been good kissers. Unfortunately, Shibari is not one of those things. Learning the art of Japanese bondage takes time and effort. In other words, you can’t just do Shibari;…
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Have you ever heard the warning “Don’t try this at home”? It’s a good piece of advice. Especially, if we’re talking about Shibari. And that’s because bondage is a risky practice. Any rope enthusiast knows that. Shibari involves risks. And, if you’re not ready to face them, you should let someone else do the job.…
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Just like in any other activity, there are some common mistakes in Shibari. After all, it is a human activity, and we humans are “wonderfully fallible”, as a very wise person said. But, wonderful as they are, we all prefer not to make mistakes. That’s why in this article we have compiled some of the…
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Just like in any other activity, there are some common mistakes in Shibari. After all, it is a human activity, and we humans are “wonderfully fallible”, as a very wise person said. But, wonderful as they are, we all prefer not to make mistakes. That’s why in this article we have compiled some of the…
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Just like in any other activity, there are some common mistakes in Shibari. After all, it is a human activity, and we humans are “wonderfully fallible”, as a very wise person said. But, wonderful as they are, we all prefer not to make mistakes. That’s why in this article we have compiled some of the…
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Communication is essential for the success of a Shibari scene. Actually, there’s a lot of talking during a Shibari scene. However, it’s not—or it shouldn’t be—the kind of chitchat that you can allow at a party or another social occasion. Communication during Shibari is strongly purpose-driven. After all, it is the best channel for the…
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