The idea was simple. Nick, my boyfriend of that time, and I enjoyed Shibari greatly. So, instead of going out to some costume party, we decided to stay at home and do something scary, sexy, and fun. We had no idea that our Halloween Shibari would turn out very differently from what we had expected.…
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Call me a romantic. I don’t care. It had to be something very special and I’m glad of what I did. Call me corny if you want, but I always dreamed with the day of my wedding. And when it finally came, I wanted it to be the most special day of my life. I…
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It was devastating. I mean, we’ve been together for thirty years. We’re getting old. And you know that things change. But to have some doctor decree that you’re sex life is over, and that you should be grateful because your husband could have died, is simply, as I said, devastating. Little did I know that…
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I was an idiot. I didn’t care about my classes; I was rude with teachers and a jerk with my classmates. It would be very easy for me to say “blame it on the hormones”, but I prefer to admit that I was a complete idiot during high school. So, it was no surprise that…
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I had been doing Shibari for ten years. So, I wanted to try something different and challenging. Maurice, my top, is as skilled a rigger as can be. I know he can do anything I ask. So, I did some research. And I told that, to celebrate our tenth year together, we should try ganjigarame,…
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I was sixteen. And I had no idea about what Shibari was. I didn’t even know much about kink. So, I wasn’t prepared for what happened. I feel a little embarrassed when I tell my story. But then again, that’s how my Shibari awakening took place, and I don’t regret it. I was part of…
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Not everything that shines is gold. When people hear I’m an escort, they think that I spend my life travelling, going to luxurious parties, meeting wonderful people, wearing expensive clothes, and having great sex. That is true, to a certain point. But it is also true that sometimes you feel nauseous from so much travelling…
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I didn’t want to play bottom. It sounded awful. For me, all this rope business sounded like a complicated manner of abuse. It even surprised me that George wanted to try it. If I had realized just how intimate Shibari is, none of this would have happened. And it might have been better that way.…
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You know what the shadow is? The shadow is what you keep repressed because it’s too dangerous. The things that you cannot admit it even to yourself are part of the shadow. Anything that hurts too much to be spoken is part of the shadow. Anyway, that’s what Jungian psychology says about the shadow, more…
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I have to be a shark when I’m in the office. I have to be quick, efficient, and daring. There’s no room for sentimentality or doubt. Things have to be done. And it’s my responsibility. Then again, I’m a woman, and just like any other person, I have feelings, memories, and desires. And I can’t…
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