Power Intoxication

Being the dominant partner comes with many risks, and one of the most serious ones is what psychologists call “power intoxication.” This term refers to an unhealthy psychological state in which a person loses control over their dominant role and becomes reckless and harmful to their partner(s).

Power intoxication is a euphoric state that comes from an excess of dopamine, the hormone of happiness. In normal doses, dopamine makes us feel good and strengthens our immune system while relaxing our muscles. However, when the body produces too much dopamine, it can cause a person to become euphoric, which is not good. In this state, people can easily become selfish and care only for their own pleasure. They can also lose the ability to calculate risks correctly, putting themselves and others in danger. For bondage enthusiasts, it is crucial to remember that the dominant persona is a role within a relationship and to avoid acting as if they are entitled to exercise power over others arbitrarily.

It is not possible to prevent the body from producing dopamine, and it is not something you want to do since it is usually positive for your well-being. However, if you are a dominant partner and you feel yourself becoming euphoric, there are things you can do to prevent power intoxication. First, relax and stop any activity that excites you. Take long breaths and stay still to slow down your pulse. Drink water and get fresh air. Substitute physical activities with conversation. In other words, press the brakes.

While it might sound tempting to let dopamine run wild, it is best to avoid it because you will regret it later. We all know how difficult it is to apologize for reckless behavior the day after. Save yourself and your partner from an awkward moment.