Restraint is a good idea to spice up intercourse. Whether it is just a touch of it, like holding your partner’s wrists, or a tying of the whole body, as in some Kinbaku scenes, it always offers an almost unbearable rush of excitement. Not to mention how it intensifies the power dynamic among partners. Having…
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One of the most popular kinks is rope games. It’s no wonder that the “B” in BDSM stands for “Bondage”. And Shibari is the most pleasurable form of bondage. As for its effects, it’s not only a great foundation for a kink scene, it also offers many benefits to its practitioners. In this article we…
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There is a strong psychological dimension of Shibari. Any bondage enthusiast knows, from firsthand experience, about the emotional connection and the power dynamic involved in a scene. However, there is a less explored psychological aspect of Shibari; actually two. Impulsion, compulsion, and Shibari are related to each other. Read the article to find out how.…
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Nowadays, detachment is fashionable as a strategy for a healthier, more meaningful way of life. Detachment is the creation of psychological distance between a person and something that causes them anxiety and stress. Even though psychologists consider emotional detachment as an unhealthy defense mechanism, other kinds of detachment, such as detachment from work or from…
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Bondage enthusiasts know that aftercare is as important as the tying itself. Mishandled aftercare can ruin a scene that was otherwise successful. More importantly, aftercare improves the relationship between top and bottom. Therefore, it is important to know how to provide proper aftercare to your bottom. Here you have the 5 keys for aftercare. Cuddling.…
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Participating in a Shibari scene without clothes is a common practice. Nude Shibari increases the feeling of vulnerability and the sense of intimacy among participants. Here, we talk about the benefits of practicing Shibari in the nude. First of all, being nude during a bondage scene contributes to the positive perception of your own body.…
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Putting a blindfold over your partner’s eyes is, perhaps, one of the most usual kinks of all time. Even people who are otherwise totally vanilla have tried and liked it. And it is one of the most accepted kinks, as proved by the delicious scenes performed by the lovely Shannen Doherty in the movie “Blindfold”,…
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Nowadays there is a fad about sensory deprivation tanks. Perhaps you saw them on “The Simpsons”. They put you in a place that deprives the senses from any input, so that you’re literally alone with yourself. For some people, it might be the opportunity for a transcendental experience. However, for others, it turns out quite…
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Shibari is not only a matter of ropes. There are many elements involved, beyond tying – Beauty, for example, can be achieved even in a modest Shibari scene. And you should understand how to create it. As any human activity, Shibari is capable of beauty. Moreover, since it is a practice that is emotionally charged…
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Shibari is not only a matter of ropes. There are many elements in a Shibari scene beyond tying – Emotions, for example, are intense and powerful in a Shibari scene. And you should understand how to handle them. The fact of playing top and bottom has intense emotional effects in the partners. For the top,…
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