Everybody’s going crazy about Artificial Intelligence (AI). From grotesque hamburger commercials to recreations of SpongeBob as an 80s dark fantasy film, people seem to be finding a new use for AI every hour. So, we asked ourselves if there was something to say about Shibari and artificial intelligence. And the answer is “yes”. We had…
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When we hear from a pilot that they have many previous hours of actual flying, we feel more confident about them. The same happens in bondage. We can never praise too much the value of experience in Shibari. It doesn’t matter how many tutorials you’ve seen on the web, or how many workshops you’ve taken,…
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I always wanted to be a real cowboy. Not a cowgirl, a cowboy. I can’t help seeing cowgirls as some sort of fantasy cowboy. And it’s not that I don’t like being a girl. I’m quite happy with who I am. It’s just that I believe a cowboy is the real thing. It all began…
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“I’ll try anything once”, is my motto. And I think it’s a good philosophy of life. After all, how can you know if something is good or bad if you haven’t tried it? I think we should give everyone and everything a chance. If it doesn’t work, you don’t lose much, and if it does,…
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I’m a construction worker. I usually work alone. It’s not that I don’t enjoy company. My point is that most people don’t want to stay around while you’re making noise with your tools, apparently destroying their house, and raising a lot of dust. So, most of the time, they leave for a couple of days…
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Eventually, all couples who are getting serious have to talk about past experiences. It’s not easy, of course. But if you refuse to have this conversation, sooner or later it will explode in the worst possible way. I know because that’s more or less what destroyed my first marriage. We convinced ourselves that whatever had…
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Shibari makes him sweat, and I love it! After all, I’ve always felt aroused by sweating men. I know that for many women it is quite disgusting, both to see and to smell, but, for me, the sight of a muscular man all covered in sweat is the kind of thing that makes my day.…
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I knew this was going to happen. After all, when you marry someone twenty years your junior, you know that, at some point, age is going to become an issue. On the other hand, who wouldn’t fulfill the fantasy of a teacher marrying his student? When I met Susanna, I was on the verge of…
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I was vanilla my whole life. You know, fetishes and kink were for whores and lost girls; that’s what they told me. I got married, and my life was pretty satisfactory. At least, that’s what I thought. We had a couple of kids, and they have grown up very well. One day, I realized I…
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All teachers fantasize with their students—all of them. I’ve been a teacher for fifteen years, and I know it. Now, don’t get me wrong; I’m not suggesting that I support abuse. Fantasies are okay as long as they are just fantasies. After all, no one can censor your thoughts. That’s the only place where you…
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