Category: Beginner’s guide

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How to Be a Good Bottom

We are clear that a bottom has its tasks in a Shibari scene. Therefore, it is important to learn how to be a good bottom. It is as important as bieng a good top. First, it’s important to know what the general intent for the scene is. Where you and your partner may have planned…
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The Rope Bottom Role

The Rope Bottom role is one of the two most important toles in Shibari. It is the person who is being tied by the top. Although people think that in a Shibari or Rope Bondage session the one who makes all the works is the rigger, they are wrong. The Bottom does collaborate in the…
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Respect in Shibari

Respect comes from the Latin word “respectus” meaning attention, regard or consideration. Respect is a very important component of Bothe personal identity and interpersonal relationships. To feel respected could be considered a basic human right. Therefore, it is very important to keep it in every relationship. Respect in Shibari is an essential ingredient, for it…
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Negotiation in Shibari

Negotiations a method by which people settle differences. It is a process to reach an agreement, while avoiding argument and dispute. In Shibari, consent and negotiation come together. Explicit consent is very important. You can’t rely only on implied consent for a scene, since there will be room for misinterpretation. In Shibari, it is very…
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Shibari at Home

Shibari at home is a very good idea. It is a place where you will have privacy and comfort. Moreover, you can take as long as you want in a scene. Likewise, it is a place that you are familiar with. This creates a more confident and private atmosphere for you and your partner. Practicing…
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Practicing Shibari when you have kids

Practicing Shibari when you have kids is not impossible. You don’t have to quit Shibari just because you are a parent. Shibari lovers and practitioners come in every age, every weight, and every size. Some are doctors, some are teachers, some are lawyers, some care policemen, and some can be parents. So, here are some…
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Consent in a Shibari Scene

Shibari is a BDSM practice, and like any other BDSM practice, it is important to have good communication, trust, and to never forget consent and negotiations before a scene. Consent is very important. If you rely only on implied consent, there is a lot of room for misinterpretation. Therefore, you cannot count on someone being…
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Guidelines to Reduce Risk in Shibari

Shibari, as any bondage practice, involves risk. Therefore, it is important to know the guidelines to reduce risk in Shibari. In this post, we will give you the quick Guideline to reduce the risk in Shibari. The guideline includes 4 points: Time, Planning, Communication and Making Good Decisions. Let’s start with time. It is important…
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Medical Emergency in Shibari

As we all know Shibari has some risks, and it is important to be aware of them. It is important to take every safety measures needed to prevent a medical Emergency or an injury. Remember, it is always better to play it safe. A Shibari scene requires confidence and trust. Always look after yourself and…
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How to Avoid Risks in Shibari

Shibari is a risky practice. Therefore, you need to know how to avoid risks in Shibari. The first thing, is a basic knowledge of human anatomy and safety measures. It is important to discuss risks and take every precaution. It is practically impossible to eliminate the risk while doing bondage. However, there are many things…
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