The day my wife came out as kinky I realized how difficult it is to really know a person. I mean, we had been married for nine years. And I thought I knew everything about her. We had thoroughly discussed our past and our plans for the future. We had shown each other our emotional…
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Today we present a story from WWII. We wanted to share it with you for two reasons. First, because Shibari plays a crucial role in it. Second, because it shows that bondage is not just a matter of ropes, but also a matter of feelings. Sometimes, we have to restrain our bodies to release our…
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Fear has always been there my whole life. I mean it. Since I was a kid, I’ve been afraid of a hundred things, from riding an elevator to travelling by plane, and from eating something unusual to going to the dentist. In other words, there are many things that scare me. And now I want…
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Megan is a sweet girl. She speaks with a soft voice, and she likes things that are colorful and nice. At first, my friends didn’t understand how we had become a couple. I’m more of a wild person, with a taste for extreme sports and crazy parties. Megan, on the other hand, enjoys playing board…
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I’m an old-fashioned man, I’ve got to tell you. I like to be a gentleman with my woman and give her gifts, not because I’m buying them or anything like that, but because I want them to know how special they are to me. And I like my women to be the way women used…
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It was horrible. It was worse than my worst nightmare. And it was the moment when Shibari taught me to be vulnerable. My husband and I were coming back from a night at the cinema—you know, one of those “let’s get away without the kids and remember how it used to be” kind of nights.…
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They told us to be strong. Also, they told us to despise weak people. And self-pity was the greatest crime of all. They taught us to be strong, and they told us it was wrong to show vulnerability. And yet, there’s a lot to say about what the pandemic taught us about vulnerability. We discovered…
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Mac Maclaughlin, Manager of the “Free the Kink” Facebook group, delivered a wonderful summary of the psychological benefits of BDSM. It is such an insightful text that we reproduce it with minimal editing. “BDSM is often seen as a taboo topic with a negative connotation. But what if embracing your desires can actually help you…
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I don’t know why I love Lana. She’s shallow and vain. She’s an expert at telling you exactly what you don’t want to hear, and she’ll always find a way to irritate you. On the other hand, she’s got a spectacular body, she dances like a devil, and there’s not a single kink she’s not…
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Nowadays, detachment is fashionable as a strategy for a healthier, more meaningful way of life. Detachment is the creation of psychological distance between a person and something that causes them anxiety and stress. Even though psychologists consider emotional detachment as an unhealthy defense mechanism, other kinds of detachment, such as detachment from work or from…
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