An essential part of BDSM is the power dynamic among partners. And the expression of this power dynamic can take a lot of forms. From latex and foot fetishes to whipping and anime cosplay, there is no limit except imagination and consent. From this point of view, rope may seem like a boring, outdated option.…
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Nowadays, detachment is fashionable as a strategy for a healthier, more meaningful way of life. Detachment is the creation of psychological distance between a person and something that causes them anxiety and stress. Even though psychologists consider emotional detachment as an unhealthy defense mechanism, other kinds of detachment, such as detachment from work or from…
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There are calendars with kittens, sports cars, and motivational quotes. And these are all fine, for those who like them. But, how about a Shibari calendar? As any rope fan knows, bondage is quite photogenic. Therefore, the idea of preparing a calendar for someone dear to your heart might be the first step for a…
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Bondage enthusiasts know that aftercare is as important as the tying itself. Mishandled aftercare can ruin a scene that was otherwise successful. More importantly, aftercare improves the relationship between top and bottom. Therefore, it is important to know how to provide proper aftercare to your bottom. Here you have the 5 keys for aftercare. Cuddling.…
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Are you interested in exploring the art of Shibari and experiencing the beauty of being tied? Whether you’re a model preparing for a bondage photoshoot or a passionate bondage enthusiast seeking a skilled rigger, it’s crucial to know what to look for in a rigger. Entrusting yourself to someone during a Shibari session requires careful…
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During a bondage scene, top and bottom should maintain an intense communication. Usually, this means verbal communication. However, there are some scenes in which the bottom might be gagged. Actually, even in a scene where their mouth is not covered, a bottom might find it difficult to talk or to specify what’s happening. Besides, the…
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Undeniably, as with any other kink deviation, you must have a thorough knowledge of your partner’s body if you want to practice Shibari. Then, you must understand which are the key body parts in Shibari, since not all of them have the same importance. Moreover, there are some body parts you should not include in…
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Nowadays there is a fad about sensory deprivation tanks. Perhaps you saw them on “The Simpsons”. They put you in a place that deprives the senses from any input, so that you’re literally alone with yourself. For some people, it might be the opportunity for a transcendental experience. However, for others, it turns out quite…
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I love Joanna, I truly do. But I want to destroy her, and that’s true, too. Let me explain. Since we were teens, we have this competition between the two of us. Each of us wanted to have the best grades, the better-looking boyfriend, and so on. She moved to London six years ago. And,…
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A gender stereotype is a generalized view about men and women, and their proper activities. Gender stereotypes frequently lead to prejudice, since they establish what a person can or cannot do according to their gender. Shibari, on the other hand, has an essentially kink vision. That is, it allows diversity, creativity, and freedom. Therefore, it…
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