On the conversation board of the “Free the Kink” Facebook group, Daisy Preston posted what, at first, seems like a simple question. “What is the weirdest compliment someone has ever given you?”. And, since weird compliments are a topic we all have something to say about, there were around fifty answers. And counting. As you…
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Shibari and dating make for a winning combination. However, as is the case with anything kinky, it’s not something you should try, or even mention, too soon. Even though it is something more widely accepted nowadays, bondage is still in the alternative side of sexuality. So, make sure to introduce it tactfully into the conversation…
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Aunt Maruh was a very traditional person. Entering her house was like going back in time fifty years. She would frown if my sister spoke too loud, because “that’s not becoming of a lady”, and she would also keep an eye on me because “men are helplessly brute”. All you could do at her home…
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They say you don’t choose who you fall in love with. And it’s true. I would have never expected having a relationship with someone like Melissa. She came from a very conservative family. So, every time I entered her parents’ house, I felt like saying the word “fool” would be an insult never before heard…
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I never thought of “coming out” as a bondage enthusiast. I mean, I’m 44 and I’m the chief of a firemen unit. Besides that, I’m a father of three, a devoted husband, and a decorated veteran. In a word, I might be the most respectable person in our little town. Likewise, when I started practicing…
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Shibari is not necessarily sexual. It can be a form of art, an act of intimacy, a therapy, the expression of a power dynamic, and, of course, a form of sexual intimacy. You can use Shibari as an aphrodisiac either as a form of foreplay or during intercourse. In either case, you can be sure…
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“Well, to be honest, this is no big deal for me.” I had just finished saying the words, when I saw Melinda’s eyes flooding with tears. We had just finished a Shibari scene. And, we felt exhausted. And I couldn’t lie anymore. It all began some weeks ago when Melinda told me she wanted us…
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