Anyone can tie their partner’s wrists and believe they are being kinky. Likewise, any square couple can get a little rough and assume they are experiencing domination. I mean, any average vanilla jerk can buy some handcuffs and think of themselves as part of the BDSM community. And yet, anyone who is truly into the…
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Nowadays, there is plenty of advice on how to deal with sexual diversity or gender identity among family members. However, when it comes to kink, we’re still a little behind. Are you ready for dealing with a Shibari son or daughter? Think of your own children, in case you have them. What would you do…
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Take the challenge. You won’t find pictures or videos of celebrities doing Shibari. And it’s not like we’re in the 50s and celebrities live up to—or at least pretend to live up to—an elevated moral standard. Not at all. Celebrities have contributed to the normalization of tattoos, piercings, and non-binary sexuality. So, how come they…
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You might be kinky and proud. However, openly acknowledging your kinky lifestyle might not be the best idea. We live in a world that is still struggling with diversity. Therefore, even though you should not deny your identity, you should be careful about it. Kinky might be one of the most misunderstood terms nowadays. So,…
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A great writer once said that not everybody is sad in the same way. Well, I’d say that nobody enjoys pleasure in the same way. We all have our own private menu for a three-course meal: arousal, satisfaction, and aftermath. In my case, friction can bring joy beyond anything imaginable. In my case, I have…
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Every year, in the residential area where I live, there’s a community festival, in which all the neighbors that sign on to it can perform on stage. Some of them sing, some of them dance, and some of them do magic tricks. And yes, it’s as boring as it sounds. But not this year. This…
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Shibari is one of the most flexible BDSM practices. It can be combined with almost any other interest within the kinky realm. Shibari and common fetishes mix up together very well. For this article, we conducted a survey online, and this is what our interviewees had to say. Blindfold. Being deprived of sight while you’re…
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I want to make something clear from the beginning: I love my husband. We’ve been married for six months, and it is a daily dream. I knew it was going to be like this. My heart told me he was the one. However, my intuition also told me that he was a little bit more…
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“I want a man who is man enough to pin me down and tie me up.” That’s what I said. And the rest of the girls stared at me as if I had said some blasphemy. And in a certain way, I did. I spoke against hypocrisy. I told the truth, and I’d like everybody…
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“I’ll try anything once”, is my motto. And I think it’s a good philosophy of life. After all, how can you know if something is good or bad if you haven’t tried it? I think we should give everyone and everything a chance. If it doesn’t work, you don’t lose much, and if it does,…
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