Wellness Domination

Wellness Domination

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Domination is not abuse. Undeniably, it might look abusive from the outside. However, those who practice such dynamics know that this is a myth that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Actually, domination is all about the sub’s wellbeing. It is the sub’s happiness that produces the greatest satisfaction in the dominant party. Wellness Domination takes this idea to the extreme. And it’s becoming quite popular.

As its name says, Wellness Domination has its foundation on the idea that the best a dominant can do is to provide an overwhelming level of wellbeing to their sub. The idea is that this will produce an unbearable feeling of admiration and gratitude in the sub. And that this, in turn, will lead to an intense desire of pleasing their dom. In other words, if you treat your sub extremely well, they will be more eager than ever to please you, no matter what you ask of them.

Wellness Domination is a conscious effort to distance true Dom/sub dynamics from the ridiculous stereotypes that have become popular since Hollywood presented the mainstream public with a caricature of this BDSM dynamic in their awful 50 Shades movie. Domination is not the realm of predators. Rather, it is a practice of powerful people who are willing to protect and care for those they feel passionate about.

This particular type of domination appears at a key moment. As we mentioned in the previous paragraph, as bad as the movie and the books might be, 50 Shades brought Dom/sub dynamics to the public’s attention. Likewise, the increase of popularity of all kinds of BDSM practices experienced during lockdown has also brought more people into this dynamic. We could even say that the recent rethinking of gender roles has contributed to the popularity of Dom/sub dynamics.

So, why not give it a try? Are you capable of caring for your sub in such an outrageous way? Can you make them cry from gratitude and love, and offer you whatever you want to take from them? Can you show yourself so vulnerable as to withstand an incessant showering of care and attention?

Let us know how things worked out. And, as usual, enjoy.

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