Untying myself won’t be easy. I‘m stuck. Moreover, I can’t move. Time goes by and every second is running against me. Either I find the strength to release myself or I’m doomed. Now, if I let panic take hold of me, I won’t be able to think clearly. And I need to think. So, I…
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I had to do it. I’m sorry. And yet, I don’t regret my decision. It’s not just a matter of safety. Shibari needs trust and I couldn’t trust her anymore. At first, I was willing to let her do anything she wanted. But when she started taking that crap, she began to make mistakes. And,…
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“Well, to be honest, this is no big deal for me.” I had just finished saying the words, when I saw Melinda’s eyes flooding with tears. We had just finished a Shibari scene. And, we felt exhausted. And I couldn’t lie anymore. It all began some weeks ago when Melinda told me she wanted us…
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“No Machos Allowed”, that’s my motto. I take gender issues very seriously. I mean, I really hate it when a man abuses a woman. And I think it all comes down to men who were educated to be machos, both around other men, and toward women. Now, if you saw my boyfriend Roger, you would…
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Shibari is not only a matter of ropes. There are many elements involved, beyond tying – Power, for example, is there, in the dynamic between top and bottom. And both of you should know how to handle it. The power dynamic in a Shibari scene is defined by two poles: domination and submission. And the…
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Shibari is not only a matter of ropes. There are many elements involved, beyond tying – Beauty, for example, can be achieved even in a modest Shibari scene. And you should understand how to create it. As any human activity, Shibari is capable of beauty. Moreover, since it is a practice that is emotionally charged…
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Shibari is not only a matter of ropes. There are many elements in a Shibari scene beyond tying – Emotions, for example, are intense and powerful in a Shibari scene. And you should understand how to handle them. The fact of playing top and bottom has intense emotional effects in the partners. For the top,…
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Everybody has heard about generations. If you were born between 1946 and 1964, you’re a boomer. If it was between 1965 and 1980, you’re a member of Generation X. And, if you were born between 1981 and 1996, you’re a Millennial (others will call you a member of Generation Z). Finally, if you were born…
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Everybody has heard about generations. If you were born between 1946 and 1964, you’re a boomer. If it was between 1965 and 1980, you’re a member of Generation X. And, if you were born between 1981 and 1996, you’re a Millennial (others will call you a member of Generation Z). Finally, if you were born…
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Everybody has heard about generations. If you were born between 1946 and 1964, you’re a boomer. If it was between 1965 and 1980, you’re a member of Generation X. And, if you were born between 1981 and 1996, you’re a Millennial (others will call you a member of Generation Z). Finally, if you were born…
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