There are five steps in a Shibari scene – Untying is the fourth one. Don’t untie quickly. Take your time. Don’t destroy what you’ve done. Let it go. Some riggers don’t give importance to untying. That’s a mistake. The fact that untying is easier than tying doesn’t mean that it is less important. Life has…
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There are five steps in a Shibari scene – contemplation is the second one. Once you’ve finished tying, you don’t to immediately begin with the untying. On the contrary, take some time to acknowledge what you’ve just done, and feel good about it. Shibari is a matter of time. Actually, there is a lot of…
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Tying is the essence of Shibari. There are five steps in a Shibari scene – tying is the second one. As any other art, bondage requires skill and concentration. The first requirement for a successful tying is to do the knots well. So, if, as a rigger, you still feel unsure of your ability, make…
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Shibari scene preparation is crucial for creating a memorable and safe bondage experience. This guide will walk you through the key elements to consider when planning your Shibari session. From setting the mood to ensuring safety, we’ll cover everything you need to know to make your scene a success. Here’s what we’ll discuss: Choosing the…
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Whereas a Shibari scene is a more immediate and intimate experience, a Shibari photoshoot is, in the end, a product to be shown to others. This means that it has to be appealing for people other than the original participants. By increasing creativity in a Shibari photoshoot, you can end up with a product that…
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A Shibari scene is the perfect canvas for your imagination. There can be a lot of creativity in a Shibari scene. It’s just a matter of brainstorming ideas, and then finding out what you can do and, most importantly, what you enjoy. First of all, you can show creativity in the setting of a scene.…
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I love Jill, I truly do. But, just like most people of her generation, she can’t keep her hands still! She wants everything now, right now. And if she doesn’t, she gets mad. This convinced me that she needed a lesson on patience, and I would give it to her through Shibari. Shibari, as any…
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Once you meet the man of your life, you want to be the only woman in his life. It is not possible, of course. We live in a society way more open to sexuality. Moreover, people marry at an older age. Therefore, it is almost impossible to be the only woman with whom the person…
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I’ve been a rigger for over twelve years. And I specialize in Shibari for people who are not bondage enthusiasts. In all those years, I’ve received my share of strange requests. After all, bondage can mean many different things for many different people. But nothing prepared me for what I call “deep Shibari”. This is…
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Some people never change, I can assure you. The greedy will be greedy, the jealous will be jealous… You get the point. My wife, Sandy, and I confirmed this old lesson when we attended a Shibari workshop last summer. We’ve been together for over ten years, and we both like bondage. Consequently, from time to…
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