In other articles, we have thoroughly discussed the various reasons why Shibari is an art. Although there are still some people who only see in bondage figures a bunch of ropes and an uncomfortable person, every day more people are beginning to appreciate the sheer beauty of a bondage scene. For this article, we gathered…
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The dictionary defines “polyamory” as “the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships with the consent of all the people involved.” It’s a definition that contains some important elements that are worthy of separate discussion. First of all, it’s a practice, not a concept. As such, it is similar to other BDSM…
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In our previous article, we discussed the impact that AI could have on Shibari. Our expert, Donald Whitford, said that, despite all the buzz, bondage will remain basically the same. To take things to the next level and continue discussing the topic of AI and Shibari, we asked ChatGPT to “describe a Shibari scene.” Here’s…
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In this article, coach Hank Martines, who has helped many people deal with stress and anxiety, shares his thoughts on the use of Shibari instead of drugs to treat these ailments. Disclaimer: coach Hank Martines is not a medical specialist, and consequently, his advice should not be taken as medical counsel. Stress and anxiety disorders…
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For decades, the DSM has been the most reliable and quoted reference for mental disorders. It has guided the research and therapy of thousands of psychology professionals all around the world. In its latest edition (the DSM 5-IV), it changes its perceptions of the paraphilias (including bondage) from something intrinsically wrong to an unusual preference.…
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Sensory deprivation is an extreme BDSM practice. It is also very fashionable nowadays. Having this in mind, our collaborator, Andrea Sneakers, had an interesting experience in which she combined bondage and sensory deprivation. Here’s her report. First, a disclaimer: you should not try sensory deprivation if you’re a sensible person. Even though it sounds innocuous,…
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In our previous post, we presented a story about a man discovering the value of bondage discipline. As any rope lover knows, bondage is not easy. It takes effort and perseverance to unveil the secrets of Shibari. And effort and perseverance are the key elements of discipline. So, since discipline is so important in Shibari,…
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I didn’t know what Shibari was until I met Sally. She’s a great person, and I’m glad we are together. We began dating, and, before you knew it, we were a couple in the true sense of the word. She never hid from me that she was kinky. On the contrary, on our first date,…
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Keeping things in the closet is hard. It might be easier at first, but, eventually, it will take its toll on your nerves. That’s why I decided to keep no more secrets and tell my family that I’m kinky. I love bondage, and I won’t deny it anymore. Allow me to explain myself. I grew…
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Matthias Gore is a German-born American contemporary artist. He specializes in rope installations and Shibari performances. During the past year, Matthias set himself the goal of doing one Shibari scene per month in order to fulfill a Shibari year. We interviewed Matthis, and this is what he said: How did you come up with the…
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