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How to Initiate Someone in Shibari

Even though kink becomes more popular every day, there are still many misconceptions around it. In the case of rope bondage, it is common for uninformed people to confuse it with a thinly disguised form of abuse. Now, any rope enthusiast knows that’s not the case. However, since there’s so much misinformation around bondage, you…
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Steps in a Shibari Scene – Aftercare

There are five steps in a Shibari scene – Aftercare is the fifth one. Take your time to bring your body and emotions back to normality. In a Shibari scene, Aftercare is the crucial final step that allows both the rigger and the bottom to return to a state of normality after the intense experience…
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Steps in a Shibari Scene – Untying

There are five steps in a Shibari scene – Untying is the fourth one. Don’t untie quickly. Take your time. Don’t destroy what you’ve done. Let it go. Some riggers don’t give importance to untying. That’s a mistake. The fact that untying is easier than tying doesn’t mean that it is less important. Life has…
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Steps in a Shibari Scene – Tying

Tying is the essence of Shibari. There are five steps in a Shibari scene – tying is the second one. As any other art, bondage requires skill and concentration. The first requirement for a successful tying is to do the knots well. So, if, as a rigger, you still feel unsure of your ability, make…
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Shibari Scene Preparation: Tips for an Enjoyable Safe Experience

Shibari scene preparation is crucial for creating a memorable and safe bondage experience. This guide will walk you through the key elements to consider when planning your Shibari session. From setting the mood to ensuring safety, we’ll cover everything you need to know to make your scene a success. Here’s what we’ll discuss: Choosing the…
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Creativity in a Shibari Scene

A Shibari scene is the perfect canvas for your imagination. There can be a lot of creativity in a Shibari scene. It’s just a matter of brainstorming ideas, and then finding out what you can do and, most importantly, what you enjoy. First of all, you can show creativity in the setting of a scene.…
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What is BDSM for Beginners? – Part 2

In part 1 of BDSM for beginners, we have already elaborated on some of the crucial aspects of this practice. Now we come with new questions and clarifications. For instance, what does it mean to be dominant? BDSM for Beginners: the Dominant To begin with, you and your partner must first decide who is going…
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Medical Risks of Breast Bondage

Breast bondage is an intimate form of bondage play that involves binding or restraining the breasts, often with rope. While visually arousing and sensually stimulating for some, it also carries certain medical risks of breast bondage that require precautions. This guide covers breast bondage basics for beginners, with a focus on safety measures to mitigate…
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Nothing Wrong With Vanilla Sex

Vanilla sex—meaning your run-of-the-mill, normal sex—is sometimes perceived as conservative and boring sex that doesn’t get too crazy. So, can vanilla sex be amazing, sensual and enjoyable? Definitively. Is vanilla sex really boring? The popularity of Kinky sex and BDSM practices, such as bondage, has increased in the past few years. In sexuality, kinkiness means…
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What is Vanilla Sex?

To put it plainly, vanilla sex is the most basic form of sexual intercourse. One that doesn’t go beyond the participants’ comfort zones the same way kinky sex might. Missionary probably is its most extravagant position. Vanilla sex is defined differently by different people, like all the different-tasting vanillas out there. In the kink community In…
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