I love Carl. That’s why we made a deal in which he agreed to whatever I wanted for Valentine’s Day, and I agreed to whatever he wanted for that special occasion. Now, the last time I did that… Well, I don’t want to talk about it. I’ll just say that, if a person who says…
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Many people use music during their Shibari scenes. It provides them with a sense of rhythm, it helps participants relax, and it also sets a specific emotional mood. It might not be the most traditional way to do it, but I think it’s a valid option. Likewise, there’s no law that forbids riggers from using…
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I was excited. I mean, finally there was going to be a bondage scene in a film! To make things even better, I was the one chosen to do it. So far, Hollywood has been too prudish about certain things. I mean, there was a point in the late 80s and early 90s when it…
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I always wanted to travel. If my feet spend too much time on the ground, I begin to feel sick. I swear it’s true! Anyway, since I was a teenager, I knew there was only one choice for me: flight attendant. Some friends have asked me why I didn’t choose to be a pilot. Well,…
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Zadist Hkm, one of the members of the “Free the Kink” Facebook group, posted a text about trauma and kink. As any practitioner knows, there are several, intense psychological factors involved in bondage and all other kinks. Though brief, Zadist’s post is full of insight. For him, trauma is an altered perception of ourselves. “This…
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In the “Free the Kink” Facebook group, Mac Mclaughlin launched the question: Who is into cosplay? The answers were varied, but they say a lot about a phenomenon which is quickly becoming part of kink. Of course, there was the typical “it’s not really my thing” answer, which tells us that some people still find…
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On the conversation board of the “Free the Kink” Facebook group, Daisy Preston posted what, at first, seems like a simple question. “What is the weirdest compliment someone has ever given you?”. And, since weird compliments are a topic we all have something to say about, there were around fifty answers. And counting. As you…
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As part of their Rope Week, the “Free the Kink” Facebook group offered a two-hour Live Suspension Performance. It was delivered by Graham Oliver and model Holly Burton. Since it was first announced, the performance generated interest among the members of “Free the Kink”. From their comments and questions, it is possible to deduce two…
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I love Michael, so I had to tell him my secret. We had been dating for six months and things were getting serious between us. I really wanted us to grow closer, but I realized that, if I wasn’t totally honest with him, it would all end up in disaster. Little did I know that,…
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I believe in synergy. You know, the idea that two and two can be something bigger than four. At least, I believe that’s the case with Jeffrey and I. He was already a very talented rigger when I met him, I acknowledge that. But what I offer to him is a treasure like no other.…
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