We all enjoy Shibari. However, for some people, it might be the moment to leave it behind. There are several reasons for quitting Shibari, and openly discussing them might be helpful for those considering it. That’s why today we decided to post this article. The most obvious reason for quitting Shibari is health. Just like…
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Some people say that the quality of the aftercare is what separates rope gamers from true artists. If it’s so important, what are the keys to great aftercare? Here are some of them. First of all, aftercare takes time. Think about what happens after you just had sex. Turning around and falling asleep in less…
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Open workshops and group classes are usually the best options for people trying to learn Shibari. However, they are not the only options available. For some bondage enthusiasts, it might be better to hire a personal instructor. In this article, we talk about when to take private lessons. First of all, if your goal is…
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In any group activity, choosing the right partner for it is crucial. Specifically, in the case of bondage, where there are many emotional and physical risks involved, it is essential to find the right person. In this article, we offer advice on how to choose a bondage partner. It is no easy task. However, taking…
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Originally, “aesthetic” was a philosophical term with quite a complex meaning. However, many people are using it right now to refer to something that is beautiful, especially on social media. It is important to know this because some people praise a Shibari scene when they see it by saying that it looks aesthetic. In the…
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Body positivity is one of today’s buzzwords. It is part of a wider tendency toward acceptance of diversity. Now, since Shibari is evidently a physical activity, it is pertinent to ask if there is a relationship between body positivity and Shibari. And the short answer is yes. Shibari welcomes all kinds of bodies. Of course,…
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We’re always encouraged to try new things. Jump in a parachute for the first time; take a girl to bed for the first time; you name it! But nobody prepares us for the last time we will be able to do something. Now, I’m what you’d call “a woman of a certain age”, and I…
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Some things we know by intuition. For example, some people are good at driving from the first time on. Likewise, others, men and women, have always been good kissers. Unfortunately, Shibari is not one of those things. Learning the art of Japanese bondage takes time and effort. In other words, you can’t just do Shibari;…
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Have you ever heard the warning “Don’t try this at home”? It’s a good piece of advice. Especially, if we’re talking about Shibari. And that’s because bondage is a risky practice. Any rope enthusiast knows that. Shibari involves risks. And, if you’re not ready to face them, you should let someone else do the job.…
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Just like in any other activity, there are some common mistakes in Shibari. After all, it is a human activity, and we humans are “wonderfully fallible”, as a very wise person said. But, wonderful as they are, we all prefer not to make mistakes. That’s why in this article we have compiled some of the…
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