Shibari and dating make for a winning combination. However, as is the case with anything kinky, it’s not something you should try, or even mention, too soon. Even though it is something more widely accepted nowadays, bondage is still in the alternative side of sexuality. So, make sure to introduce it tactfully into the conversation…
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Most people just won’t admit how kink they are. If you ask them they’ll say that they have an open mind regarding sexuality, and that they are fine with everybody doing their business as they want in the bedroom, and yadda yadda yadda. However, when it comes to give concrete examples of what they mean,…
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There’s been a change of tides, that’s a fact. We do things people from the previous generations didn’t do, and we stopped doing things that they normally did. I think about this while I’m on the elevator, on my way to Mindy’s office. She’s a business executive. So, she spends the day in her office,…
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They say you don’t choose who you fall in love with. And it’s true. I would have never expected having a relationship with someone like Melissa. She came from a very conservative family. So, every time I entered her parents’ house, I felt like saying the word “fool” would be an insult never before heard…
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Restraint is a good idea to spice up intercourse. Whether it is just a touch of it, like holding your partner’s wrists, or a tying of the whole body, as in some Kinbaku scenes, it always offers an almost unbearable rush of excitement. Not to mention how it intensifies the power dynamic among partners. Having…
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There are calendars with kittens, sports cars, and motivational quotes. And these are all fine, for those who like them. But, how about a Shibari calendar? As any rope fan knows, bondage is quite photogenic. Therefore, the idea of preparing a calendar for someone dear to your heart might be the first step for a…
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Participating in a Shibari scene without clothes is a common practice. Nude Shibari increases the feeling of vulnerability and the sense of intimacy among participants. Here, we talk about the benefits of practicing Shibari in the nude. First of all, being nude during a bondage scene contributes to the positive perception of your own body.…
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When you think of a Shibari scene, most probably what comes to your mind is a session in a studio or outdoors. It is also possible to practice Shibari at home, as many people found out during lockdown. Therefore, it’s not surprising that you can also practice Shibari in bed. And let us say it…
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One of the most common ways to exercise domination over a partner is to show strength, both physical and mental. It is important, however, to distinguish between strength and violence. Strength is good because it shows skills, resources, and the willingness to act to protect and care for your partner. On the other hand, violence…
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I’m a construction worker. That may sound to you like a boring job. But it becomes more interesting when you’re gay and you have to lead a double life, in which, during the day, you’re a tough guy, and, at night, you’re a sweet gay. And when I ended up tying the boss, I realized…
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